Episode 120
120: Oksana Hansen - From Corporate To Quantum Wellness: Creating The Life You Want To Live
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"We can build our perfect life. We can literally build a life around how we want to live," says Oksana Hanson, who joins the Quantum Biology Collective podcast to share her transformative journey from corporate executive to quantum health advocate. After a melanoma diagnosis at 35, Oksana questioned conventional wisdom and embraced circadian biology principles, leading to profound improvements in her physical and emotional well-being.
Oksana discusses how aligning with natural rhythms, spending time outdoors, and prioritizing family values reshaped her life. She explains the power of saying "no" and the importance of living authentically. Oksana also reveals how homeschooling her children has allowed for a more circadian-aligned lifestyle and deeper family connections.
Tune in to today's episode to learn about Oksana's upcoming retreat, which promises to bring together leading minds in quantum health for a unique, immersive experience. Discover how embracing quantum principles can lead to what Oksana describes as "living heaven on earth" – a state she believes is within reach for everyone.
Key Takeaways
1. Start your day with sunrise exposure and end it by blocking blue light at night to improve sleep and energy levels.
2. Spend more time outdoors, even for everyday activities like meetings or coffee breaks, to boost mood and overall wellbeing.
3. Question conventional health advice and do your own research, trusting your intuition and personal experiences.
4. Create a set of core family values to guide decision-making and align your lifestyle with what truly matters to you.
5. Consider alternatives to traditional education, like homeschooling, to create a more flexible schedule that supports your family's health and circadian rhythms.
Memorable Quotes
"I deserve to be loved for who I am, not who I'm pretending to be. As a people pleaser, that wasn't the true and honest and authentic me. If I deserve love, true love, I have to show who I am."
"We can build our perfect life. We can literally build a life around how we want to live. Making that big change, moving to Nashville, all of a sudden we're like, we could do anything."
"We truly think that we are living heaven on earth, and that is within reach for everybody."
Resources Mentioned
Carrie Bennett Wellness - https://carriebwellness.com/
PubMed (medical research database) - https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/
Connect with Oksana
Website: quantumlenswellness.com
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/QuantumLensWellness
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TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@soulanchorco
Retreat: carriebwellness.com/retreat
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Transcript
All right. Oksana Hansen. Super excited to have
Meredith Oke:you on. You were just saying that you were, like,
Meredith Oke:I was saying, an OG Applied Quantum Biology
Meredith Oke:certified practitioner. You're like, I was an
Meredith Oke:early adopter. Came in back when we. Right around
Meredith Oke:when we first launched in 2022.
Oksana Hanson:Yeah. It's been quite the journey. Thanks so much
Oksana Hanson:for having me on today.
Meredith Oke:Oh, it's my total pleasure. I'm really looking
Meredith Oke:forward to hearing your story and hearing how you
Meredith Oke:landed in a certification for Applied Quantum
Meredith Oke:Biology when you started out in sales and tech as
Meredith Oke:an executive in San Francisco. That's quite the
Meredith Oke:trajectory. I love it. Yeah. So tell us your
Meredith Oke:story, because, you know, it's. You've made a lot
Meredith Oke:of leaps, and I think it's really helpful for
Meredith Oke:people to hear how. How those leaps happened and
Meredith Oke:what could be possible for them and be able to
Meredith Oke:relate. So you were an executive in the San
Meredith Oke:Francisco Bay area. You were married. Did you
Meredith Oke:have children at the time?
Oksana Hanson:So is it okay if we start a little bit earlier
Oksana Hanson:than that?
Meredith Oke:Because.
Oksana Hanson:Yeah. Is that okay, Please?
Meredith Oke:Absolutely. Take us where we need to go to get
Meredith Oke:the full, full trajectory.
Oksana Hanson:So I was born and raised in Russia, and my family
Oksana Hanson:immigrated to the United states in late 1991. And
Oksana Hanson:it was because my mother had a very rare form of
Oksana Hanson:cancer called osteosarcoma, and it was in her
Oksana Hanson:jaw. It had moved up to her brain. And so from,
Oksana Hanson:like, the age of seven on, my life was filled
Oksana Hanson:with doctors, visits, hospitals, surgeries. Like,
Oksana Hanson:it was like this life kind of began without me
Oksana Hanson:even knowing it. And, of course, because my
Oksana Hanson:mother was only 30 years old at the time, like, I
Oksana Hanson:just assumed, and I thought that's what happens.
Oksana Hanson:Like, people in my family, they get cancer, they
Oksana Hanson:die early. My mom's mom had died at 50. So, like,
Oksana Hanson:I just set out on this course thinking, like, I'm
Oksana Hanson:not going to have a long life. Like, I might as
Oksana Hanson:well enjoy it because, you know, did there was.
Meredith Oke:Did your mother survive or. No.
Oksana Hanson:She did. Yeah. So it was one of the craziest
Oksana Hanson:cancer, like, surgeries that they did. They still
Oksana Hanson:have, like, all over her files. Do not delete any
Oksana Hanson:of this. Like, it's insane. But they basically
Oksana Hanson:ended up removing the entire right side of her
Oksana Hanson:face. So, yeah, so they, like, peeled off the
Oksana Hanson:skin and dug everything out. All the tissue, all
Oksana Hanson:the bone, her eye, like, her palette. Like, I
Oksana Hanson:mean, everything from the brain down, she ended
Oksana Hanson:up having. Honestly, I've lost count at this
Oksana Hanson:point. It's probably in the upwards of, like, 30
Oksana Hanson:different surgeries. She's still alive today.
Oksana Hanson:It's a miraculous, miraculous story. But really,
Oksana Hanson:like, it's funny because my journey kind of
Oksana Hanson:started with that initiation, like as a very,
Oksana Hanson:very small child.
Meredith Oke:Yeah.
Oksana Hanson:Being thrown into the, this world of sickness,
Oksana Hanson:doctor care, surgeries and all these other things
Oksana Hanson:which I'm so grateful for. Right. Like we talk
Oksana Hanson:about like in the alternative world, like those
Oksana Hanson:are the situations where like you want that kind
Oksana Hanson:of standard of care. But since then, and this was
Oksana Hanson:like 30 plus odd years ago, you know, her health
Oksana Hanson:has taken a big degradation. And so as being her
Oksana Hanson:healthcare advocate and going through my own
Oksana Hanson:journey, which I'll share in a second, like I've
Oksana Hanson:learned, like we need people to advoc for like
Oksana Hanson:our own healthcare journeys and also be there for
Oksana Hanson:other people's like in their healthcare journey
Oksana Hanson:to advocate for them as well. And when I say
Oksana Hanson:healthcare, I just mean health, not the actual,
Oksana Hanson:you know. You know what I mean? Yes, yes.
Meredith Oke:You need someone on the inside with paying
Meredith Oke:attention.
Oksana Hanson:Yes.
Meredith Oke:Asking every step of the way, is this the best
Meredith Oke:thing to do? Is this in the best interest of my
Meredith Oke:mother or my. Whoever it is? Yeah, absolutely. So
Meredith Oke:that is something that I've seen happen. You
Meredith Oke:probably did too, you know, in your experience.
Meredith Oke:Yeah. You where you end up with multiple
Meredith Oke:specialists and multiple doctors and everyone's
Meredith Oke:got a different drug or a different intervention.
Meredith Oke:And it's like who's thinking about the person,
Meredith Oke:not just the patient.
Oksana Hanson:And the way like I like to describe my experience
Oksana Hanson:with my mom is there was a bunch of silos. So
Oksana Hanson:there she had like oncology, she had the
Oksana Hanson:radiation, she had, you know, the surgeons, she
Oksana Hanson:had the ear, nose, throat doctor, she had the
Oksana Hanson:brain tumor doctor, she had this doc. Right.
Oksana Hanson:Like, so there's so many people, but it was like
Oksana Hanson:there was no one person looking at the whole
Oksana Hanson:picture. So like you'd get prescribed a
Oksana Hanson:medication that was having this other side
Oksana Hanson:effect. Well then this other specialist is trying
Oksana Hanson:to deal with the side effect and then they're
Oksana Hanson:issued another specialist to deal with that side
Oksana Hanson:effect. And like it was just such a cluster of
Oksana Hanson:information, pills, surgeries, half of which I
Oksana Hanson:think were unnecessary really. But that's not
Oksana Hanson:what we're talking about here. But anyhow, so I
Oksana Hanson:kind of went on with my life when I moved out of
Oksana Hanson:the house, married my husband, moved to the San
Oksana Hanson:Francisco Bay area, was working for tech
Oksana Hanson:startups, like Loving Life, like going out
Oksana Hanson:entertaining clients, like living it up. And like
Oksana Hanson:from the outside perspective, like everybody
Oksana Hanson:thought that I had this like perfect life. And my
Oksana Hanson:husband and I decided that we would Wanted to
Oksana Hanson:raise a family and have children. Well, it took
Oksana Hanson:me about two and a half years to conceive. And so
Oksana Hanson:that was really, like, my first sign that I was
Oksana Hanson:like, huh, okay, maybe this lifestyle is, like,
Oksana Hanson:the late nights. You know, I was working 24 by 7.
Oksana Hanson:It was one of these, like, in. In this industry
Oksana Hanson:where you needed to respond within, like, two
Oksana Hanson:minutes of somebody sending you an email. It's
Oksana Hanson:high stress. I was in sales, so, of course you're
Oksana Hanson:being held to quotas. And, you know, it was just
Oksana Hanson:that crazy kind of lifestyle. But because we
Oksana Hanson:didn't have children, we kind of got accustomed
Oksana Hanson:to that, and, like, we thought it was our norm,
Oksana Hanson:right? And so I was finally able to conceive, and
Oksana Hanson:we had our kids back to back. Because I always
Oksana Hanson:think, like, oh, once the body knows what it's
Oksana Hanson:doing and you're healthy enough, like, you talk
Oksana Hanson:about getting pregnant and you're pregnant again.
Oksana Hanson:So, yeah, our kids. Our kids are very close
Oksana Hanson:together, which is so amazing. And we decided
Oksana Hanson:that somehow, like, it felt like the Bay Area was
Oksana Hanson:no longer. It had lost its luster. After we had
Oksana Hanson:kids, we thought, why are we raising our kids
Oksana Hanson:here? And one of the biggest reasons we moved
Oksana Hanson:across country to Nashville, Tennessee, was
Oksana Hanson:because we thought, okay, we're raising our
Oksana Hanson:children in an area where one, they're going to
Oksana Hanson:have to be, you know, in sales and investment
Oksana Hanson:banker or, you know, one of, like, only a handful
Oksana Hanson:of things, like, you know, an entrepreneur with a
Oksana Hanson:startup or something to get funding. Like, there
Oksana Hanson:was only a handful of things that they could do
Oksana Hanson:outside of, like, marrying into a relationship
Oksana Hanson:that was financially, like, supportive for them
Oksana Hanson:or, like, we would have to support them for the
Oksana Hanson:rest of their lives. And we wanted to, like, it
Oksana Hanson:was really important for us.
Meredith Oke:Is it so expensive out there? Is that what you're
Meredith Oke:saying? Like, it's just so impossible.
Oksana Hanson:Yeah, it's impossible to live unless you're. I
Oksana Hanson:mean, my husband had guys working for him that
Oksana Hanson:were, like, six to eight people to an apartment.
Oksana Hanson:These guys were making, like, several hundred
Oksana Hanson:thousand dollars a year, right? So, like, we
Oksana Hanson:didn't want to put our kids in that type of
Oksana Hanson:position where they had to stay in a situation
Oksana Hanson:that wasn't, like, natural to them and kind of
Oksana Hanson:give them the world of opportunity. So I think
Oksana Hanson:the biggest decision that we made was moving
Oksana Hanson:across country, but the decision I didn't make at
Oksana Hanson:that point that I should have was to get out of
Oksana Hanson:technology sales. And I did it because it was
Oksana Hanson:great money. I was really good at it. Moving to
Oksana Hanson:Nashville, especially, like, it was just easy for
Oksana Hanson:me to make that transition. And so we knew we
Oksana Hanson:wanted like a slower lifestyle. We wanted to
Oksana Hanson:raise our kids in a place that felt more aligned
Oksana Hanson:with us. But we didn't make a change when it came
Oksana Hanson:to what we were doing for a living. And that's
Oksana Hanson:when I got diagnosed with my child.
Meredith Oke:I will say that's a tough call. You know, if
Meredith Oke:you're supporting your family, it does. It's not
Meredith Oke:top of mind to change jobs and. But you were, you
Meredith Oke:had noticed. So starting with your. You had
Meredith Oke:difficulty conceiving and then you were you
Meredith Oke:having other health symptoms? That's as well.
Oksana Hanson:Well, and I think what's interesting is we know
Oksana Hanson:the choice to move. Yeah, yeah. It was, you know,
Oksana Hanson:like there was definitely like weight gain,
Oksana Hanson:insomnia, there was like adrenal fatigue, there
Oksana Hanson:was all these other factors. But everyone just
Oksana Hanson:said, like, you're a first time mom or like you
Oksana Hanson:have a newborn at home or you're breastfeeding,
Oksana Hanson:like if you're up every two hours, of course
Oksana Hanson:you're tired. Of course. And somehow all these
Oksana Hanson:things, like in my mind became normal. Like it
Oksana Hanson:was normal to gain weight. It was normal to just
Oksana Hanson:be a walking zombie living off of coffee. It was
Oksana Hanson:normal to have a glass of wine at night to relax
Oksana Hanson:because that's what everybody does. Right. Like,
Oksana Hanson:and it kind of gets you into these habits of
Oksana Hanson:like, you think that's what everybody else is
Oksana Hanson:doing and it gets very normalized.
Meredith Oke:Yeah, I think that's a, that's a big one. Is. And
Meredith Oke:you know, I had a similar experience. We, we have
Meredith Oke:kind of forgotten as a culture what it's like to
Meredith Oke:feel really good and that it's okay to feel
Meredith Oke:really good. And we've like layered on all of
Meredith Oke:these different assaults on our biology. So of
Meredith Oke:course we don't feel good, but nobody really
Meredith Oke:does. So like, what's the big deal? It's. Yeah.
Meredith Oke:And then, and then in order to feel good, that
Meredith Oke:there are choices that need to be made. So. Okay,
Meredith Oke:so keep going. So you. Okay, so you had some
Meredith Oke:awareness that your health wasn't great, but it
Meredith Oke:was like, oh, well, no, it's fine. Like I'm busy,
Meredith Oke:I'm a mom. It's like I'm supposed to feel tired
Meredith Oke:and zombie like all the time, which is what they
Meredith Oke:tell us. And then 30 years later they tell us
Meredith Oke:we're supposed to feel like that because we're
Meredith Oke:not moms anymore, we're getting older. Like, it's
Meredith Oke:like, okay, we're still moms, but we're not. You
Meredith Oke:know, it's like every stage of life, it's. There
Meredith Oke:seems to be a reason why we're supposed to feel
Meredith Oke:gross and terrible and crappy. I reject it.
Oksana Hanson:I say, not in my world.
Meredith Oke:Not in our world. Okay, so you get to Nashville,
Meredith Oke:which is an improvement in many ways, but you're
Meredith Oke:still not feeling great, and you're still in high
Meredith Oke:stress drop.
Oksana Hanson:Yeah. And I think, okay, this is the year that
Oksana Hanson:I'm 35 years old. I'm going to take control of my
Oksana Hanson:health. I have no excuses. My kids are like,
Oksana Hanson:three and four at this age. Like, okay, no more
Oksana Hanson:mom bod. Like, I'm gonna start walking every day.
Oksana Hanson:Like, I don't know why I chose walking. Don't
Oksana Hanson:know why I didn't go to the gym. Don't know why I
Oksana Hanson:didn't do a million, like, take Pilates class. I
Oksana Hanson:don't know. Like, I was just like, I'm gonna
Oksana Hanson:start walking every day. So I put my headphones
Oksana Hanson:in, slathered on that sunblock, and went outside
Oksana Hanson:for my.
Meredith Oke:Because you're in Tennessee. You got to be spfed
Meredith Oke:to the max every time you leave the house.
Oksana Hanson:To the max. Yep.
Meredith Oke:Okay.
Oksana Hanson:And I start noticing a growth on my leg. And, you
Oksana Hanson:know, I was one of these people where I saw a
Oksana Hanson:dermatologist twice a year, was very religious
Oksana Hanson:about it, did everything that the dermatologists
Oksana Hanson:told me to do. I had a big spot removed, like,
Oksana Hanson:this size, big, black, brown spot on my back when
Oksana Hanson:I was 12 years old. And so I'd been under a care
Oksana Hanson:of a dermatologist because of my mom's history
Oksana Hanson:with cancer. We were kind of amplified in our
Oksana Hanson:approach when it came to our, you know, health.
Oksana Hanson:And so I was like, man, I don't know what that
Oksana Hanson:growth is, but I need to go find a dermatologist
Oksana Hanson:that's local. And I go get a checkup. She's like,
Oksana Hanson:you're fine. We'll take a biopsy. And then you
Oksana Hanson:get that dreaded call that's like, you need to
Oksana Hanson:come in tomorrow at 7am to see the doctor. And I
Oksana Hanson:was like, well, we know that that's not good news
Oksana Hanson:when they're having you come in, like, first
Oksana Hanson:thing in the morning. And so my husband and I
Oksana Hanson:went in, and that's when I got told that I was
Oksana Hanson:diagnosed with melanoma. And from the second that
Oksana Hanson:they said that, Meredith, like, I was like, this
Oksana Hanson:doesn't make sense. I've been under the care of a
Oksana Hanson:dermatologist seen twice a year, every year since
Oksana Hanson:I was 12. I'm 35 years old. How did I get
Oksana Hanson:diagnosed with melanoma? And to me, like, and
Oksana Hanson:doing everything.
Meredith Oke:That they said, everything. All their
Meredith Oke:instructions.
Oksana Hanson:And I'd made such improvements, like, in my
Oksana Hanson:health and my weight. And I was walking every
Oksana Hanson:day. I was spending time outside, and I was like,
Oksana Hanson:this doesn't make sense. I thought this was a
Oksana Hanson:disease, you know, And I'm sorry if this is
Oksana Hanson:offensive, but, like, old white men got, like. I
Oksana Hanson:thought that they got it on their face. And,
Oksana Hanson:like, I didn't know anything else about skin
Oksana Hanson:cancer at that point. And so without being, like,
Oksana Hanson:rushed to fear, I was like, I'm going on vacation
Oksana Hanson:with my family in a couple weeks. Like, let's
Oksana Hanson:talk about the treatment options. But I'm
Oksana Hanson:definitely not going to start anything until I'm
Oksana Hanson:back from this vacation 30 days from now. And I
Oksana Hanson:think they were shocked, like, that I wasn't
Oksana Hanson:gonna, like, rush into making any, like,
Oksana Hanson:treatment decisions right away. And this is when
Oksana Hanson:I felt, like, most empowered out of, like, any
Oksana Hanson:time I ever have in my life, because this will to
Oksana Hanson:live for my children was greater than any
Oksana Hanson:diagnosis that I could get. And I started doing
Oksana Hanson:my own research, and I go to pubmed for the first
Oksana Hanson:time in my life, and I found a study that said,
Oksana Hanson:in melanoma, in particular, because of its
Oksana Hanson:irregular borders, you should be cutting around
Oksana Hanson:10 millimeters around the cancer. And I went to
Oksana Hanson:my surgeon, and I said to her, can we have a
Oksana Hanson:conversation about this? How much are you
Oksana Hanson:planning to cut off? And she said, between 4 to 5
Oksana Hanson:millimeters. And I said, here, can you please
Oksana Hanson:read this study? And, like, I'm a married woman.
Oksana Hanson:I don't care what it looks like. I have young
Oksana Hanson:babies. Like, I need you to cut more than you
Oksana Hanson:think is even necessary. Like, I want you. Like,
Oksana Hanson:if we're going to do this, like, let's make sure
Oksana Hanson:we get all of the cancer. And so I ended up just
Oksana Hanson:having the surgery, no other treatment done,
Oksana Hanson:because I was like, okay, this is how we're going
Oksana Hanson:to handle this situation. I went into the
Oksana Hanson:solution mode, like, at that point to survive.
Oksana Hanson:And again, this was, like, very much I'm still in
Oksana Hanson:that conventional mindset. Like, hadn't really
Oksana Hanson:had, like, my awakening to everything that is
Oksana Hanson:going on and somehow still was very clear and in
Oksana Hanson:my approach to how I wanted to do this treatment,
Oksana Hanson:because I'd seen my mom go through chemo. I'd
Oksana Hanson:seen my mom go through radiation. I wasn't going
Oksana Hanson:to put myself or my family through that. It was
Oksana Hanson:awful. Like, I Didn't want to repeat that
Oksana Hanson:generational cycle of putting my children through
Oksana Hanson:that kind of trauma. And thankfully, I came
Oksana Hanson:across Quantum Biology Collective. So. So I was
Oksana Hanson:having my follow up visits, and at that point, I
Oksana Hanson:think it's either monthly, every other month,
Oksana Hanson:like it was very often for the first two years.
Oksana Hanson:And she kept saying to me, like, you need wear
Oksana Hanson:sunblock. You need to cover up, you need to not
Oksana Hanson:go outside. And I was like, this doesn't make
Oksana Hanson:sense. And if you remember, probably like a year
Oksana Hanson:after that diagnosis that I had, they recalled
Oksana Hanson:Oxybenzone sunblock off the market for causing
Oksana Hanson:cancer. And so I went under my cabinet and I
Oksana Hanson:pulled out this, what I thought was organic
Oksana Hanson:Australian sunblock. And the first ingredient was
Oksana Hanson:Oxybenzone. And I thought to myself, I was making
Oksana Hanson:this healthy change of moving to Nashville,
Oksana Hanson:walking for three miles a day outside, but I was
Oksana Hanson:slathering on this toxic stuff, which I think,
Oksana Hanson:you know, along with lifestyle things and, you
Oksana Hanson:know, seed oils and other things that we now know
Oksana Hanson:can, you know, are correlated with the skin
Oksana Hanson:cancer. But I was slathering on sunblock every
Oksana Hanson:single day. And I truly think that was one of the
Oksana Hanson:major contributing factors. Wow.
Meredith Oke:That is so interesting because you started the
Meredith Oke:walking practice. Walking is outside. You are a
Meredith Oke:diligent patient of lifelong dermatology and
Meredith Oke:doing everything you can to prevent cancer. So
Meredith Oke:you started using this sunscreen every day, and
Meredith Oke:then you ended up with that diagnosis. Wow, okay.
Oksana Hanson:And thankfully, it was in a location where I
Oksana Hanson:personally saw it. Right. Like, one of the
Oksana Hanson:biggest things with, like, melanoma is, you know,
Oksana Hanson:men get it on their back, you know, like, or in
Oksana Hanson:their private areas. Which, again, like, I. I
Oksana Hanson:look at those things and I'm like, that doesn't
Oksana Hanson:make sense. Like, why would someone get skin
Oksana Hanson:cancer in a place that doesn't see the sun?
Oksana Hanson:Right? Like, breast cancer is one of the most
Oksana Hanson:prevalent, like, CANC answers we have today.
Oksana Hanson:Like, I just wonder. I'm like, that's
Oksana Hanson:interesting, right? So as I came across the
Oksana Hanson:Quantum Biology Collective and your message, it
Oksana Hanson:was the first time in my entire life that I was
Oksana Hanson:like, wow, the sun gives life to everything on
Oksana Hanson:Earth. Of course we don't need to be scared of
Oksana Hanson:the sun. Like, it was the first time that I heard
Oksana Hanson:something that actually made sense to me. I'm
Oksana Hanson:like, okay, I don't know anything about quantum
Oksana Hanson:biology health. Like, I didn't have a science
Oksana Hanson:background. Like, my degree was in philosophy. So
Oksana Hanson:all I knew was really like, how to question any
Oksana Hanson:argument and use logic. And to me, like, this
Oksana Hanson:Came, it came so easily because of, I think my
Oksana Hanson:background with my mom's cancer, being around
Oksana Hanson:surgeries, being around doctors, asking all the
Oksana Hanson:questions, being around that industry for so
Oksana Hanson:long, it felt like everything that like I had
Oksana Hanson:experienced led up to this. Like, now I know what
Oksana Hanson:my purpose is in life, and that is to teach
Oksana Hanson:people the actual healing ways of this planet.
Oksana Hanson:Because had I had not, hadn't had those
Oksana Hanson:experiences and maybe get diagnosed with cancer
Oksana Hanson:at 35 and just have the surgery and have it
Oksana Hanson:removed and move on with my life, I wouldn't be
Oksana Hanson:where I am today.
Meredith Oke:Wow, that's amazing. And I like, I love that you
Meredith Oke:heard, you heard the message and I love that
Meredith Oke:philosophy is very practical. You were trained to
Meredith Oke:seek truth, to under recognize it, and to ask
Meredith Oke:questions about, of things that don't make sense.
Meredith Oke:And you are in the perfect position. That's
Meredith Oke:amazing. So did you quit your job?
Oksana Hanson:Yes. So at the end of, because that.
Meredith Oke:Is a big deal. And I, you know, I, I, I don't
Meredith Oke:like, you know, just saying, like, ah, you got to
Meredith Oke:move to the equator. Ah, you got to quit your
Meredith Oke:job. Like, these are big important life changes.
Meredith Oke:So if you did quit your job, that is a huge
Meredith Oke:decision I'd love to dig into a little because.
Oksana Hanson:Yeah, so within, within six months, I was no
Oksana Hanson:longer employed at that firm. And, and then I had
Oksana Hanson:some time to, really had about a year to figure
Oksana Hanson:out what I wanted to do with my life. And that
Oksana Hanson:was when Covid hit. And so, you know, the whole
Oksana Hanson:universe kind of changed. And I think now that I
Oksana Hanson:was like, empowered of like, questioning
Oksana Hanson:everything. I was like, oh, I don't have to
Oksana Hanson:think, take things at face value. I can do my own
Oksana Hanson:research. I may not have a ton of experience in
Oksana Hanson:this stuff, but I can read, you know, studies and
Oksana Hanson:information and decipher and really like, trust
Oksana Hanson:that intuition. Like, I guess that's the one
Oksana Hanson:thing that we haven't really touched on is
Oksana Hanson:there's a lot of like, trusting yourself and the
Oksana Hanson:guidance that you're getting from God, the
Oksana Hanson:universe, whatever you want to call it, that I
Oksana Hanson:had drowned that voice for a long time and now it
Oksana Hanson:was amplified. It was like, you're empowered.
Oksana Hanson:Just take the time to like, slow down and listen.
Oksana Hanson:And all of a sudden I was getting like, very,
Oksana Hanson:very, very clear messages unlike anything that
Oksana Hanson:I've ever done before. And also had the strength
Oksana Hanson:to back up my stance on those, on those messages
Oksana Hanson:and the preferences. I was like, I'm no longer
Oksana Hanson:saying yes just to be a people pleaser or for it
Oksana Hanson:to be convenient. Like, I need to protect my
Oksana Hanson:energy, my family's energy, and. And things just
Oksana Hanson:kind of started falling into place. Some most
Oksana Hanson:powerful word in the English language is no.
Meredith Oke:I love it. It's so true. And it's. It's hard. You
Meredith Oke:don't realize how many little tentacles and
Meredith Oke:threads of energy, connective tissue that we feel
Meredith Oke:responsible for. And we feel like that no might.
Meredith Oke:I'm trying to articulate my experience when I say
Meredith Oke:no. Yeah. And it's feels like I'm going to sever
Meredith Oke:them all, and then I'll be, you know, everyone's
Meredith Oke:going to be harmed or something. And. Yeah. I
Meredith Oke:just had a situation where I had to make a choice
Meredith Oke:about something, and I ended up saying no. And it
Meredith Oke:was like. Like, oh. I mean, when it came time to
Meredith Oke:do it, it was easy, but, like, getting to.
Meredith Oke:Getting to the decision was it's a process. And I
Meredith Oke:appreciate you bringing that up because sometimes
Meredith Oke:we tell our stories and we're like, oh, then I
Meredith Oke:did this and then I did that, and it's like,
Meredith Oke:yeah, but cultivating the internal fortitude and
Meredith Oke:intuition to come to those decisions is no small
Meredith Oke:thing.
Oksana Hanson:Well, and I. I think, because I am very logical
Oksana Hanson:and practical, too. So it's like, I love to
Oksana Hanson:philosophize, but I love to like, okay, how could
Oksana Hanson:we make this into a. Something you can actually
Oksana Hanson:implement? So what we did in our family is we put
Oksana Hanson:up a whiteboard and we said, what are our family
Oksana Hanson:ethics and values? And for two weeks, we left
Oksana Hanson:this whiteboard up. And anytime you thought of a
Oksana Hanson:value that was important to you, you would go and
Oksana Hanson:write it up on this board. And after the two
Oksana Hanson:weeks was done, the four of us had written a lot
Oksana Hanson:of different things, but what I noticed was a lot
Oksana Hanson:of similar themes. And how old were children?
Meredith Oke:But just curious, when you did this exercise.
Oksana Hanson:Maybe seven and eight. Okay. So I love it. Yeah.
Meredith Oke:So you're all in there. People, they would just
Meredith Oke:have an idea, they walk by, they'd write up, you
Meredith Oke:jot it up.
Oksana Hanson:Like adventure, fun. Right. Friends, love. Right.
Oksana Hanson:All the different things. We had so many things,
Oksana Hanson:but I noticed certain themes. And so what I did
Oksana Hanson:was I narrowed down all the things that were
Oksana Hanson:written on this whiteboard to five key
Oksana Hanson:principles. And I had an artist make a custom
Oksana Hanson:artwork for me, and we hang it up right outside
Oksana Hanson:of our garage door. So we look at it every time
Oksana Hanson:we exit and enter our house, and this is our way
Oksana Hanson:that we make decisions. If it does not meet three
Oksana Hanson:out of the five core values for the Hansen,
Oksana Hanson:Family values. The answer is an automatic no.
Meredith Oke:Oh, my gosh, that's so good. And I love that
Meredith Oke:because I do feel a little bit of your corporate
Meredith Oke:background coming into play. Right. Like, this
Meredith Oke:is, like, totally, like, a strategic planning
Meredith Oke:exercise. I've been there. Yes, but why not apply
Meredith Oke:it to the family? That's brilliant.
Oksana Hanson:Right? Everybody's needs and values get heard
Oksana Hanson:like they're overlapping themes. We all agree on
Oksana Hanson:that. It doesn't mean can't get revisited. Maybe
Oksana Hanson:we revisit it now, but, like, you know, ours is
Oksana Hanson:like, health, community, love, safety. Right. And
Oksana Hanson:adventure. And if, like, those are the things
Oksana Hanson:that are valuable to us right now. And there.
Oksana Hanson:It's really easy when you apply this principle to
Oksana Hanson:say yes or no to things, because at the end of
Oksana Hanson:the day, it's not personal. But if I don't feel,
Oksana Hanson:like, safe or if I don't feel, like loved or in
Oksana Hanson:community, like, it's going to be a no. And
Oksana Hanson:that's because it's not aligning with my core
Oksana Hanson:value. And so you can kind of take, like, that
Oksana Hanson:spiritual aspect and apply it, like, practically
Oksana Hanson:to your everyday life.
Meredith Oke:Absolutely. I love this. This is. I'm. This,
Meredith Oke:like, yeah, I'm the same way. I'm like, okay, but
Meredith Oke:what is, like, what does this mean in. In the
Meredith Oke:real terms? And these. Yeah. Sort of ethereal,
Meredith Oke:like, oh, my intuition and this and that. No, it
Meredith Oke:can be extremely practical, and I. I like to
Meredith Oke:coach people about that with their too. And it's
Meredith Oke:like, this is your business. So if it doesn't
Meredith Oke:align, like, if you. If. If you get nauseous
Meredith Oke:going on social media, then let's build a
Meredith Oke:strategy where you don't need to do that. Right.
Meredith Oke:Like, it's. You're allowed to craft the
Meredith Oke:experience that you want to have in this world,
Meredith Oke:and that is living in alignment with who you are
Meredith Oke:and your. What you want. And that's. And which is
Meredith Oke:an extremely practical way forward. Love it. What
Meredith Oke:a beautiful thing to do for your family and. And
Meredith Oke:to show your children how to do that. I love that.
Oksana Hanson:Thank you. Well, I think it's just showing up and
Oksana Hanson:telling them it's okay to say no. It's okay to
Oksana Hanson:question things. Like, I want to raise
Oksana Hanson:independent thinkers. I want them to learn how to
Oksana Hanson:think, not to memorize things, which is why I
Oksana Hanson:homeschool my children. And, you know, you come
Oksana Hanson:across my kids, they can look you in the eye,
Oksana Hanson:they can have a conversation with you. Like,
Oksana Hanson:they're, you know, they're wild and free. They,
Oksana Hanson:like, we have a couple Acres at our lake house.
Oksana Hanson:And they're like, climbing the trees in the
Oksana Hanson:forest, building forts and doing all these
Oksana Hanson:things. Like, they're the happiest kids. Like, I,
Oksana Hanson:I look at that. And I was like, my whole journey
Oksana Hanson:was worth it just so my children can be children
Oksana Hanson:and have this amazing childhood that maybe I
Oksana Hanson:didn't get to experience, but I get to, like,
Oksana Hanson:live vicariously through them. Like seeing how
Oksana Hanson:carefree and happy and wild they are. Yeah.
Meredith Oke:Oh, that's amazing. I know. There's nothing,
Meredith Oke:nothing brings joy like watching children be
Meredith Oke:children, especially outside. Right. Like, it's,
Meredith Oke:there's just. I don't know. It is truly one of
Meredith Oke:the most joyful experiences, experiences a person
Meredith Oke:can have. I think watching children, like, run
Meredith Oke:around and climb trees and jump in the water and
Meredith Oke:just enjoy, Enjoy their childhood. And I love
Meredith Oke:too, because you know what I'm also hearing? It's
Meredith Oke:like, I think sometimes we feel afraid to change
Meredith Oke:tracks in life or we are changing tracks and we
Meredith Oke:feel like, I don't know anything about this new.
Meredith Oke:You know, I'm doing this instead of that. And so
Meredith Oke:I'm starting from zero. And what I hear that you
Meredith Oke:did that I really like to remind people is that
Meredith Oke:there are always transferable skills and
Meredith Oke:experiences. Right. And I'm hearing you, like,
Meredith Oke:take some really great stuff from your years in
Meredith Oke:corporate life. And like, I, for me, it's like
Meredith Oke:God or our higher power will, like, take whatever
Meredith Oke:you have to offer and make it relevant and useful
Meredith Oke:in this, in this, in the new path. And I notice
Meredith Oke:you doing that. I love it.
Oksana Hanson:Well, I think, I think if I were to hear what you
Oksana Hanson:said is like, you can always reinvent yourself.
Oksana Hanson:It's never too late. Right? Like, so our path
Oksana Hanson:isn't predetermined. Like, you have free will.
Oksana Hanson:And so I think the biggest thing that most people
Oksana Hanson:have a fear about, and I had this fear too, until
Oksana Hanson:a few years ago, is the fear of being really
Oksana Hanson:seen. And.
Meredith Oke:Yeah.
Oksana Hanson:And I. And I think, well, why is that? Well, am I
Oksana Hanson:living authentically? Am I living my life
Oksana Hanson:honestly? Right? Am I living my life with
Oksana Hanson:integrity? Meaning, like, how I feel on the
Oksana Hanson:inside. I'm living outwardly. Right? Like, so
Oksana Hanson:being a people pleaser like that to me is the
Oksana Hanson:definition of maybe not living with integrity.
Oksana Hanson:Right? You're making yourself small. I played
Oksana Hanson:small for a really long time because I didn't
Oksana Hanson:want to make other people feel uncomfortable.
Oksana Hanson:Like, that wasn't me living with integrity. And
Oksana Hanson:once I kind of flipped that switch of that fear
Oksana Hanson:of being seen, I was like, I deserve to be loved.
Oksana Hanson:Every single person in this universe deserves to
Oksana Hanson:be loved. But I deserve to be loved for who I am,
Oksana Hanson:not who I'm pretending to be. So as a people
Oksana Hanson:pleaser, like, that wasn't the true and honest
Oksana Hanson:and authentic me. And so if I deserve love, true
Oksana Hanson:love, I have to show who I am. And with that
Oksana Hanson:really came a lot of strength to make some of
Oksana Hanson:these decisions in life. Of like, okay, if this
Oksana Hanson:is in alignment with me, I have to live with
Oksana Hanson:integrity. I have to say no.
Meredith Oke:Yes. And then when we, I think that opens up us
Meredith Oke:up to being able to receive that love and to be
Meredith Oke:seen, because we know, oh, they're loving the
Meredith Oke:real deal. They're not loving a version that I'm
Meredith Oke:pretending to be to not make anyone mad or
Meredith Oke:something. And so this, this inner growth, this
Meredith Oke:spiritual growth came from and really an
Meredith Oke:exploration into your physical health because
Meredith Oke:it's all, it's all connected, right? Like, you
Meredith Oke:didn't start out to have a spiritual awakening.
Meredith Oke:You started out to make sure that you didn't get
Meredith Oke:sick and that you didn't, you know, that you
Meredith Oke:dealt with your cancer.
Oksana Hanson:Well, I started following like, alternative
Oksana Hanson:health communities. And this was like all during
Oksana Hanson:COVID right? Like, and so this is several months
Oksana Hanson:after, like, Covid, I would say the summer right
Oksana Hanson:after Covid. And I was like, oh, cold, plunging.
Oksana Hanson:Oh, that's interesting. Oh, there's these people
Oksana Hanson:that are doing fasting. Okay, that's interesting.
Oksana Hanson:So I came across this like, spiritual community
Oksana Hanson:and they were like, come to this retreat. And I
Oksana Hanson:was like, okay, like, I'll go. And I show up and
Oksana Hanson:they're like, we're going to do a three hour
Oksana Hanson:breath work. Like a holotropic, like, breath
Oksana Hanson:work. And I was like, okay, I don't know what
Oksana Hanson:that is. And sure, like, I've had lots of trauma,
Oksana Hanson:right? I was like, yeah, I'll try it. I'll try
Oksana Hanson:anything. This isn't like popping a pill or
Oksana Hanson:taking a drug. Like, this was like a natural
Oksana Hanson:thing that you could do with your breath. And I
Oksana Hanson:had the most amazing journey. At first you're
Oksana Hanson:like doing it and you're like, I'm this,
Oksana Hanson:nothing's happening. I'm not doing it right. And
Oksana Hanson:then all of a sudden, like, there was this
Oksana Hanson:amazing vis that I had and literally life
Oksana Hanson:changing. Like, I picked up the phone and called
Oksana Hanson:my husband and I was like, okay, like, I got a
Oksana Hanson:very clear vision about what my mission is on
Oksana Hanson:this earth. And like, I need your support. Like,
Oksana Hanson:can we sit down and talk about it? And I remember
Oksana Hanson:flying home, and we sat down, we opened a bottle
Oksana Hanson:of wine, and we had the best conversation, I
Oksana Hanson:would say, like, we've been together 22 years
Oksana Hanson:now, like, of our entire relationship. It was
Oksana Hanson:like, that night, I was like, these are my hopes
Oksana Hanson:and my dreams. These are my goals. Like, this is
Oksana Hanson:the example I want to set for the kids. Like,
Oksana Hanson:this is an example, but I want to set to them,
Oksana Hanson:like, around love and family and community and
Oksana Hanson:all these things. And my husband was like, yes,
Oksana Hanson:like. And he shared his goals and dreams with me,
Oksana Hanson:and it was. It honestly felt like a recommitment,
Oksana Hanson:like, not only to ourselves, but to each other,
Oksana Hanson:because we are so supportive of each other's
Oksana Hanson:journeys. And that's when his journey started,
Oksana Hanson:too. And even though he wasn't going through the
Oksana Hanson:same, like, kind of personal growth and work that
Oksana Hanson:I was working on at that point, like, somehow it
Oksana Hanson:sparked something in him to start down his path
Oksana Hanson:and his journey. And together, like, it just felt
Oksana Hanson:like we were unstoppable.
Meredith Oke:Oh, that's so beautiful and. And important. Like,
Meredith Oke:it's. To have a partner who. Who gets it and who
Meredith Oke:is on the ride with you makes a really big
Meredith Oke:difference.
Oksana Hanson:Yeah. And I'm like, okay, we're gonna homeschool
Oksana Hanson:the children. He's like, that's really scary, but
Oksana Hanson:okay. He's like, good for him.
Meredith Oke:I'm going all the way. So how's that going?
Oksana Hanson:So good. So good. And by the way, you question
Oksana Hanson:yourself the whole way. You're like, am I doing
Oksana Hanson:the right things? Like, and as the children get
Oksana Hanson:older and smarter and, you know, I just focus on
Oksana Hanson:knowing that you can learn lots and lots from
Oksana Hanson:reading books and information. But I also love to
Oksana Hanson:couple it with, like, experiential things. Like,
Oksana Hanson:for instance, this weekend was President's Day
Oksana Hanson:weekend, and so we went to New York City to see
Oksana Hanson:the Statue of Liberty and Ellis island, and we
Oksana Hanson:saw the play Hamilton. Right. Like, so it's.
Oksana Hanson:People think, like, homeschooling is like, you're
Oksana Hanson:sitting at a desk working all day long. Well,
Oksana Hanson:yes, that's part of it. You know, everybody needs
Oksana Hanson:to do math and be able to read and write at the
Oksana Hanson:end of the day. But, like, it doesn't have to be
Oksana Hanson:as difficult as you think it is in your head.
Oksana Hanson:Like, it. It's actually pretty simple.
Meredith Oke:Yes, it's true. I interviewed a woman during
Meredith Oke:COVID I did a little series when the lockdowns
Meredith Oke:were happening, and all of a sudden, our kids
Meredith Oke:were home all day. So I just, like, did Facebook
Meredith Oke:lives with People who knew how to do that. And I
Meredith Oke:interviewed this mom who homeschooled. I think
Meredith Oke:she had like five children. And she was like,
Meredith Oke:yeah, we, we do school from 9 till 12. And then
Meredith Oke:they go outside.
Oksana Hanson:Yeah.
Meredith Oke:Like the older one goes fishing and the younger
Meredith Oke:ones do this and they, you know, they had a big
Meredith Oke:property and in a rural situation and it was just
Meredith Oke:like, yeah. And they're like ahead of all of the
Meredith Oke:milestones according to the, you know, where
Meredith Oke:they're supposed to be from the state law of
Meredith Oke:whatever. And I was like, oh, okay. That's
Meredith Oke:actually. So I hear what you're saying. Like,
Meredith Oke:yeah, you just do it. It's not school, but at
Meredith Oke:home it's a different experience.
Oksana Hanson:Well, and like we take light breaks, right. So we
Oksana Hanson:sit outside for sunrise every single morning, no
Oksana Hanson:matter like what the weather is outside. And we
Oksana Hanson:do our morning prayers together and reread
Oksana Hanson:together like as family. And then we go inside
Oksana Hanson:and we eat and we do a couple things and then we
Oksana Hanson:go for our barefoot walk like around the block.
Oksana Hanson:Then we do a couple, you know, a little bit more
Oksana Hanson:of work and then we go for our three mile family
Oksana Hanson:walk. Like it's, we're so circadian, like aligned
Oksana Hanson:now and we get the flexibility to do that as a
Oksana Hanson:family. And then like gymnastics and sports and
Oksana Hanson:other things that my kids are doing, they're
Oksana Hanson:doing that in the afternoon hours instead of the
Oksana Hanson:night hours. Right. Like, so they're home by 4 or
Oksana Hanson:5. We're having dinner together, we're getting
Oksana Hanson:our blue blockers is on. We're spending that time
Oksana Hanson:together as family before bed. Like, I remember
Oksana Hanson:having them doing activities till like 8 o'clock
Oksana Hanson:at night. We'd all be cranky, exhausted, hungry.
Oksana Hanson:Like it was just, we were all going crazy. And
Oksana Hanson:for what? Like, when you're homeschool, you can
Oksana Hanson:have all the time that you want. You can put
Oksana Hanson:sports activities in the morning. You have so
Oksana Hanson:much flexibility to do what you want to do, to
Oksana Hanson:like align your schedule with like our circadian
Oksana Hanson:rhythm and how we're meant to like ancestrally
Oksana Hanson:live. Right?
Meredith Oke:Oh, that's so good. Yeah, it's true. The, the
Meredith Oke:scheduling is, you know, it's crazy. My. Yeah,
Meredith Oke:I'm on a, A board in this school district and we
Meredith Oke:meet once a month and I wear my glasses and no
Meredith Oke:one says anything. My kids are like, oh God. But
Meredith Oke:yeah, we leave some. Sometimes that meeting goes
Meredith Oke:till 9pm and I'm leaving and like there's kids
Meredith Oke:playing basketball and the moms are waiting
Meredith Oke:outside in the hall and like, they're not done
:30 and.
Oksana Hanson:Oh, my God, what?
Meredith Oke:But yeah, it's, you know, when you're in school
:30 and then you have. Yeah. The way that
:our culture is set up, it's not. It's not
:optimized. So let's. Okay, so let's circle back
:to that because you. So you found the. The
:circadian biology world, the quantum biology
:world. And it's. You've, like, really integrated
:those principles into your life. So you've just
:told us a little bit about your day. Like, how
:did that start out for you? And how has your
:health been since. Since integrating a circadian
:optimized lifestyle?
Oksana Hanson:I think the biggest change was my emotional
Oksana Hanson:health. And I know that's going to sound weird
Oksana Hanson:because we were just talking about the C word,
Oksana Hanson:cancer. But honestly, like, what I found was the
Oksana Hanson:biggest change was spending more time outside.
Oksana Hanson:Like, so I always tell people, I'm like, what can
Oksana Hanson:you do today outside? What can you do that you've
Oksana Hanson:planned today outside? So whether it's, you know,
Oksana Hanson:like doing a walking meeting with your boss
Oksana Hanson:outside instead of sitting, like, in the office,
Oksana Hanson:taking your coffee break outside. Like, where can
Oksana Hanson:you open a window? Right? Like, I felt this rush
Oksana Hanson:of energy when I started waking up with the sun.
Oksana Hanson:Like, I was one of these people that always used
Oksana Hanson:an alarm clock, was staying up super, super late,
Oksana Hanson:had insomnia. I would always wake up between 2
Oksana Hanson:and 3 in the morning. And all of a sudden we
Oksana Hanson:started watching the sunrise and blocking blue
Oksana Hanson:light at night. And all of a sudden I was like a
Oksana Hanson:different person. It was like, okay, well,
Oksana Hanson:obviously being out in the sunlight makes me feel
Oksana Hanson:good, so I want more of that. Like, right, you
Oksana Hanson:get that dopamine rush and you're like, more of
Oksana Hanson:what feels good. Okay, Being out in the sun feels
Oksana Hanson:good. So all of a sudden, I'm tanning my skin
Oksana Hanson:again, and we're buying a lake house so we could
Oksana Hanson:spend more time outside barefoot, in the woods
Oksana Hanson:and in the water. And I mean, it was this cascade
Oksana Hanson:of, okay, we can build our. We can build our
Oksana Hanson:perfect life. Like, we can literally build a life
Oksana Hanson:around how we want to live. And somehow I think
Oksana Hanson:living in California would have never given us
Oksana Hanson:that freedom. But making that big change, moving
Oksana Hanson:to Nashville, all of a sudden, we're like, oh, we
Oksana Hanson:could do anything. Like, it felt like this
Oksana Hanson:permission to make whatever life decisions we
Oksana Hanson:wanted. Like, I don't know. I know that sounds
Oksana Hanson:kind of weird, huh? It kind of sounds weird.
Meredith Oke:No, that makes total sense. And I think it's
Meredith Oke:another really important point to bring up is
Meredith Oke:that, yeah, we feel like if this is the way
Meredith Oke:things are, this is the way things have to be.
Meredith Oke:And it's like whether it's in our, the way our
Meredith Oke:lives are structured, our businesses are
Meredith Oke:structured. Yeah. We are the architects. We can
Meredith Oke:redesign anything at any moment. And if it feels
Meredith Oke:impossible where we are, like, okay, well maybe,
Meredith Oke:maybe it's somewhere else, but it's possible.
Meredith Oke:Like all the things are possible. And I love that
Meredith Oke:you leaned into that and made it real.
Oksana Hanson:Yeah. And what's funny is. So my husband was very
Oksana Hanson:skeptical. He's like, like skin type one, right.
Oksana Hanson:He's like red beard, very blonde hair, very
Oksana Hanson:white, see through skin. And he was like, how are
Oksana Hanson:we not going to wear sunblock? And I'm like,
Oksana Hanson:we're just going to test this. Like, we're going
Oksana Hanson:to, you know, watch the sunrise. We're gonna go
Oksana Hanson:for our UVA walk every morning. Right. Our body
Oksana Hanson:has all these internal processes. Right. To
Oksana Hanson:protect you from the sun. We're gonna, we're
Oksana Hanson:gonna listen to this information and we're gonna
Oksana Hanson:test it. So I remember it was like 101 degrees.
Oksana Hanson:We were at this water park. It was black asphalt,
Oksana Hanson:it was so hot outside. Our two kids are very,
Oksana Hanson:very fair skinned as well. And he goes, we're not
Oksana Hanson:putting on some block today. And I'm like, like,
Oksana Hanson:nope. I go, but any sign of us, like getting pink
Oksana Hanson:or red? Like, we'll get, you know, we'll take a
Oksana Hanson:little break or whatnot. We spent all day at this
Oksana Hanson:water park, Meredith. We were going to bed that
Oksana Hanson:night. My husband goes, I cannot believe we're
Oksana Hanson:not burnt to the crisp. And I'm like, huh, isn't
Oksana Hanson:that funny? Isn't that funny?
Meredith Oke:Like that interesting.
Oksana Hanson:And that. Yeah.
Meredith Oke:Building up your ability to be in the sun over,
Meredith Oke:over time. Your skin was preconditioned. You knew
Meredith Oke:how to do sensible sun exposure. And it's like
Meredith Oke:four super fair skinned people, even a redhead.
Oksana Hanson:Yeah.
Meredith Oke:Outside all day and it's like, you're fine.
Oksana Hanson:Yeah. It was just, it was this proof of like,
Oksana Hanson:okay, this stuff is not like, woo, woo. This
Oksana Hanson:stuff is real. Like we're testing it on
Oksana Hanson:ourselves. We feel the best we've ever felt.
Oksana Hanson:We're in the greatest shape of our life. Like,
Oksana Hanson:and I feel so fulfilled too. Like emotionally,
Oksana Hanson:spiritually fulfilled of like teaching this
Oksana Hanson:information to other people. There's nothing that
Oksana Hanson:brings me more joy than talking about this and
Oksana Hanson:meeting all the interesting people in our
Oksana Hanson:community. Like you and I were talking about
Oksana Hanson:before. We started this podcast is like, it is
Oksana Hanson:some of the best people in this community. Like,
Oksana Hanson:everyone's so loving and supportive and so
Oksana Hanson:passionate about what they do. It's just the best.
Meredith Oke:Yeah, it's really, it's really amazing. It's like
Meredith Oke:when you, you know, because, yeah, I've made some
Meredith Oke:choices to veer off the, off the main path. And
Meredith Oke:it's like once you do and you're off, you know,
Meredith Oke:on your tangent, then you're surrounded by other
Meredith Oke:people who also made that choice. And so there's
Meredith Oke:a sense of freedom, I think, amongst people who,
Meredith Oke:you know, because they're like, yeah, I did the
Meredith Oke:weird thing, I did the hard thing. And like, here
Meredith Oke:I am. It's all fine. And yeah, we have like a
Meredith Oke:bigger purpose guiding us, you know, and we're
Meredith Oke:all, we're all like on the same page with that.
Meredith Oke:And so I love. Because so now what's coming to
Meredith Oke:fruition on your journey with this is an in
Meredith Oke:person retreat which is coming up June 2025 in
Meredith Oke:Tennessee. So you and Carrie Bennett have put
Meredith Oke:this together. Like, tell us about that, how it
Meredith Oke:came to be, what it's going to be like.
Oksana Hanson:Yeah, so I think after Covid, we were all kind of
Oksana Hanson:craving that human connection. And this QVC was
Oksana Hanson:just such a small community and we had known all
Oksana Hanson:these people and built these friendships and
Oksana Hanson:relationships, but yet never met anybody in
Oksana Hanson:person. And so I was up in the Detroit area
Oksana Hanson:seeing an explant specialist to get my implants
Oksana Hanson:taken out and I was like, carrie, I'm close to
Oksana Hanson:you. I'm going to come by and let's have a
Oksana Hanson:coffee. And her and I got talking. It was so
Oksana Hanson:great because we'd known each other for a couple
Oksana Hanson:years now, and we're like, we've never seen each
Oksana Hanson:other in person. And I go, man, just feels like
Oksana Hanson:we need to put some kind of event together to
Oksana Hanson:have everybody in the same place. And as we all
Oksana Hanson:know, like, we are energetically connected. I'm
Oksana Hanson:like, we. How magical would it be if we all came
Oksana Hanson:together like in person? And that's where this
Oksana Hanson:idea of this in person retreat came to be. And we
Oksana Hanson:spent like a really good six months, like,
Oksana Hanson:looking for the perfect location that was like
Oksana Hanson:circadian friendly and, you know, finally found
Oksana Hanson:this like old reclaimed rock quarry that's on 160
Oksana Hanson:acres right outside of Nashville. So it's like
Oksana Hanson:close to a major airport, but yet just far
Oksana Hanson:enough. It's got this beautiful waterfall and
Oksana Hanson:this huge barn. And we're like, yes, we can get
Oksana Hanson:some of the smartest people, like smartest minds
Oksana Hanson:in this industry together, ask them to talk about
Oksana Hanson:something they've never talked about publicly
Oksana Hanson:before. So this is going to be like a very unique
Oksana Hanson:kind of approach to what people are going to talk
Oksana Hanson:about and get everybody in one room with like,
Oksana Hanson:you know, slide away doors. So the barn is open
Oksana Hanson:to the outside with water running there and we
Oksana Hanson:have some really beautiful, like really quantum
Oksana Hanson:aligned vendors that are coming to kind of
Oksana Hanson:showcase and sell some of their products and
Oksana Hanson:bring different tools that people might not
Oksana Hanson:necessarily get to experience in their day to day
Oksana Hanson:life. And so it's just we've been curating and
Oksana Hanson:working on this for like over a year now just to
Oksana Hanson:make it like super, super special, but very again
Oksana Hanson:like aligned with our principles and like
Oksana Hanson:everything that we stand for.
Meredith Oke:I love it. I'm so excited for this. I think it's
Meredith Oke:amazing what you're doing and yeah, there's,
Meredith Oke:there's nothing like in person connection and you
Meredith Oke:know, when you're out, when you're involved in
Meredith Oke:something that's like really, really not
Meredith Oke:mainstream. The technology is a beautiful thing.
Meredith Oke:Right. Because we can be connected across all the
Meredith Oke:geographies and find each other, but at the same
Meredith Oke:time. Yeah. Then to have to have a real life
Meredith Oke:opportunity to be in each other's physical
Meredith Oke:presence is just so profound. So that I think
Meredith Oke:it's going to be just a gorgeous event. I'm so
Meredith Oke:thrilled that what you, you and Carrie have, have
Meredith Oke:put together and I highly encourage everybody to
Meredith Oke:go. So the, the website is. What's the website? I
Meredith Oke:will put it in the show notes for sure. And
Meredith Oke:Carrie and Oksana have very kindly offered a, a
Meredith Oke:10% discount if for the code QBC. You put that
Meredith Oke:when you check out. And it is.
Oksana Hanson:I should have put it up. Carrie B. Wellness.com
Oksana Hanson:forward/retreat.
Meredith Oke:Okay. Oh, so it's, you can just find it through
Meredith Oke:Carrie's website.
Oksana Hanson:Yeah.
Meredith Oke:Okay. Yeah. So Caribbean Wellness Forward slash
Meredith Oke:retreat. Put the, put QVC in. It's at the end of
Meredith Oke:June 2025 for a couple of days. And yeah, it's
Meredith Oke:going to be magical and fun and I, I feel like
Meredith Oke:it'll be one of those things that will just for
Meredith Oke:everyone who, who's able to attend will like just
Meredith Oke:be a big battery recharge in, in whatever way you
Meredith Oke:need.
Oksana Hanson:Um, I was talking to Carrie this morning and she
Oksana Hanson:said that she just had this vision of like we
Oksana Hanson:were at the retreat and there was just smiles
Oksana Hanson:everywhere and the energy was insane. I was like,
Oksana Hanson:yes, like this is gonna Be one of those. Like, it
Oksana Hanson:feels surreal because all of these people, like,
Oksana Hanson:that we've been aligned with, like, you know,
Oksana Hanson:we're. We've kind of. I'm gonna say this for
Oksana Hanson:myself, not other people. Like, I kind of felt
Oksana Hanson:weird, right? Like, I'm the odd man out amongst
Oksana Hanson:all my friends and all these people talking about
Oksana Hanson:the sun and the healing power of the earth and
Oksana Hanson:all these things. And now I'm like, I get to be
Oksana Hanson:in a room full of all these people, like, with
Oksana Hanson:the same mindset, and pick their brains behind
Oksana Hanson:the scenes. Pick their brains of these really,
Oksana Hanson:really smart people with all these interesting
Oksana Hanson:views on the world and our body and how
Oksana Hanson:everything works and coincides together. It's
Oksana Hanson:gonna be amazing.
Meredith Oke:Yeah, it's gonna be really fun. Tell me some of
Meredith Oke:the speakers.
Oksana Hanson:So we have Stephen Hussey, Danielle Hamilton, we
Oksana Hanson:have Sarah Pugh, Sarah Kleiner, and I'm sure
Oksana Hanson:there's a lot more information. That's amazing.
Meredith Oke:Well, they're right there.
Oksana Hanson:Yes, they're on the website.
Meredith Oke:Yeah, no, just. Just a little. Just a handful.
Meredith Oke:Sneak peek. Yes. So I. Yeah, I really, really
Meredith Oke:want to encourage anybody who's listening if you
Meredith Oke:felt like that little, like, jolt or impulse of,
Meredith Oke:like, oh, my God, that sounds so fun. Like, do
Meredith Oke:whatever you need to do to get there, because it
Meredith Oke:will really be worth it. And these opportunities,
Meredith Oke:you know, they don't happen all the time. So
Meredith Oke:putting on a live event is no small. It's no
Meredith Oke:small thing. It's a really big endeavor. So I
Meredith Oke:think it's really important that we support them
Meredith Oke:and show up if. If at all possible, because they
Meredith Oke:really matter. And it's, I think, important to
Meredith Oke:the. To the growth of this message, to the growth
Meredith Oke:of this community and all of it.
Oksana Hanson:Thank you, Meredith. And I guess, like, I just
Oksana Hanson:want to say, like, I think everyone has a. Their
Oksana Hanson:own definition for, like, quantum health, but for
Oksana Hanson:me, like, I really look at it from, like, a
Oksana Hanson:spiritual, emotional, and physical standpoint.
Oksana Hanson:And so the experiences that we've kind of curated
Oksana Hanson:at this retreat are going to touch each of those.
Oksana Hanson:Each of those areas. And so we'll have some great
Oksana Hanson:speakers, and then we'll go outside and maybe do
Oksana Hanson:a breath work. We'll have another speaker. We'll
Oksana Hanson:go outside and jump into an ice bath. We'll have
Oksana Hanson:another speaker, and maybe we'll go do yoga,
Oksana Hanson:Right? There's. There's going to be, like, a
Oksana Hanson:sound bath. Like, there's going to be all these
Oksana Hanson:experiences that are going to kind of help you to
Oksana Hanson:integrate the learnings and the information, and
Oksana Hanson:then also do things together as a group of people
Oksana Hanson:with, like, bonding things. Like, if you've never
Oksana Hanson:done an ice bath, like, this is the best way to
Oksana Hanson:experience it when you have other people around
Oksana Hanson:you, like, cheering you on. The weather's going
Oksana Hanson:to be great. It's going to be hot outside, so
Oksana Hanson:you're going to want to jump in the ice bath.
Oksana Hanson:But, yeah, it's definitely not going to be this,
Oksana Hanson:like, stuffy. You're sitting in a conference room
Oksana Hanson:learning material. Like, it's going to be some
Oksana Hanson:amazing speakers, but it's going to be some
Oksana Hanson:amazing kind of transformative experiences, I'll
Oksana Hanson:say.
Meredith Oke:As well, fun, fully immersive. Sounds so good.
Meredith Oke:And. And, yeah, and I think these types of events
Meredith Oke:and are leading the way into a paradigm where we
Meredith Oke:stop with all of the compartmentalizing of
Meredith Oke:physical health versus mental health versus
Meredith Oke:emotional health versus psychological versus
Meredith Oke:virtual. It's like, yeah, from a quantum biologic
Meredith Oke:perspective, it's all the same. It's. It's. You
Meredith Oke:know, and I hear so many stories of, yeah, like,
Meredith Oke:something starts, you have a physical symptom
Meredith Oke:that leads to a spiritual awakening, or you have
Meredith Oke:a spiritual awakening that leads to a wanting to
Meredith Oke:take better care of your physical body. You know,
Meredith Oke:like, it's, you know, so I think this idea of
Meredith Oke:acne, you know, honoring that with the way that
Meredith Oke:you've structured the event is, you know, the way
Meredith Oke:forward, the way of the future. Any other last
Meredith Oke:thoughts, Oksana?
Oksana Hanson:No. Thank you so much for having me on today. I
Oksana Hanson:really appreciate it.
Meredith Oke:Well, thank you for sharing your story. It was
Meredith Oke:truly, truly an honor to go, you know, to hear
Meredith Oke:you share that journey and to be able to
Meredith Oke:articulate the different choice points that you
Meredith Oke:faced and how you navigated them. And I really
Meredith Oke:love the message that you're leaving with people
Meredith Oke:of that. Like, we can. We can make our lives
Meredith Oke:different. You know, we don't. It's possible and
Meredith Oke:whatever that looks like for each person, but,
Meredith Oke:you know, you're a living example of that, and
Meredith Oke:that's really, really powerful. So much gratitude
Meredith Oke:to you and your lovely husband. Good for him for
Meredith Oke:getting on the ride.
Oksana Hanson:Thank you. We truly say, like, we truly think
Oksana Hanson:that we are living heaven on earth, and that is
Oksana Hanson:within reach for everybody, so.
Meredith Oke:Oh, that's beautiful. Thank you for being here,
Meredith Oke:Oksana.
Oksana Hanson:Thank you.