Episode 133
133: Terra Martin - Stop the Trauma Loop: Hypnosis, Sunlight & Subconscious Healing
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"The body voice becomes stronger than the voice of the trauma," says Terra Martin, hypnotherapist and newly certified Applied Quantum Biology practitioner, who joins the Quantum Biology Collective podcast to reveal how her musical background informs her unique approach to healing trauma. Martin explains how she "hears" emotions in her clients' voices, likening it to discerning musical notes, and how this skill allows her to quickly identify underlying issues.
In this fascinating discussion, Martin shares insights on the intersection of hypnosis, psychology, and quantum biology. She describes how trauma becomes trapped in the body, replaying on a cellular level, and how practices like circadian rhythm optimization and grounding can help release it. Martin also recounts remarkable case studies, including a client whose neck tumor disappeared after addressing emotional issues.
Tune in to today's episode to learn more about Martin's innovative techniques for trauma resolution, the power of the body's innate wisdom, and how quantum biology principles are revolutionizing her practice.
5 Key Takeaways
1. Practice listening to the intonation and cadence in people's voices, not just their words. This can reveal hidden emotions and provide deeper insights into what someone is really feeling or experiencing.
2. When triggered emotionally, try counting backwards from 10 while slowing your breathing. This helps regulate your energy and prevents absorbing others' intense emotions.
3. Use hypnosis or similar techniques to open the "doorway" between your conscious and subconscious mind. This allows processing of stored traumas without reliving the pain.
4. Incorporate circadian rhythm optimization practices like morning sunlight exposure, blue light blocking, and grounding. This helps anchor trauma healing in the physical body.
5. Focus on educating yourself about your own stress patterns and responses. Approach personal growth as a process of self-discovery rather than fixing something "wrong."
Memorable Quotes
"Hypnosis allows the body to do what it needs to do, but it won't always be logical. As a therapist, you've got to hang on and go for a ride. It's not my direction that guides it, it's the body's direction. The body knows the bottom line."
"When you clear trauma out, which is what quantum seems to do, everything I've done comes into greater play. Physically, clients get clearer on their cells because the sunlight helps so much."
"There hasn't been one client I've given this information to that hasn't benefited to some degree. To me, it's sold. It's the way to go. Plus, it's away from the medical, which we could talk for hours on."
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Transcript
Terra Martin, welcome to the QVC podcast. This is
Meredith Oke:going to be fun.
Terra Martin:Happy to see you, Meredith.
Meredith Oke:Okay, so I want to start with your origin story,
Meredith Oke:because you studied music and you were on the
Meredith Oke:path to. Towards music composition and being a
Meredith Oke:professional musician, and then you moved over
Meredith Oke:into psychology and hypnosis. So tell me about
Meredith Oke:that transition and, like, what. What, if any,
Meredith Oke:overlap there is in those areas?
Terra Martin:Okay. Well, I started in music, and I intended to
Terra Martin:spend my life composing on the piano and perhaps
Terra Martin:getting hired by the Toronto Symphony Orchestra
Terra Martin:and then living on peanut butter and crackers the
Terra Martin:rest of my life. And a professor said, you have a
Terra Martin:passion for music. You love it, and do you want
Terra Martin:to hate your passion when it doesn't provide you
Terra Martin:a living? Then I thought about it, and I said,
Terra Martin:no, you're right. So then I moved to taking
Terra Martin:courses in psychology, hypnotherapy, cbt, and was
Terra Martin:going to choose that because to me, when I first
Terra Martin:heard those things and I listened to people
Terra Martin:speak, I go, I can do this. It's like music. It's
Terra Martin:like I can hear the rise and fall of their voices
Terra Martin:as they say certain words and certain sentences.
Terra Martin:And I do this all the time when I'm listening to
Terra Martin:music or composing. So it's an easy. It's an
Terra Martin:easy. I don't really have to get used to it. I
Terra Martin:have to sharpen my ear in a slightly different
Terra Martin:way. So I did that, and then I came back to
Terra Martin:music, and now I own about six instruments. I
Terra Martin:haven't met an instrument I don't like, so I have
Terra Martin:to be careful when I go on ebay.
Meredith Oke:That's amazing. So your life is filled with music
Meredith Oke:and in the traditional sense, but also you see
Meredith Oke:your patients through the lens of a trained
Meredith Oke:musician's ear.
Terra Martin:Correct.
Meredith Oke:So you were saying, like, you hear in their
Meredith Oke:voices when they speak.
Terra Martin:Well, for example, if they come into the office
Terra Martin:and one lady came in and she stood at the door
Terra Martin:and she said, I'm not upset. And I heard right
Terra Martin:away it was grief, because I could hear. There's
Terra Martin:physical words you speak, but then there's an
Terra Martin:intonation. That's the music. And I heard that
Terra Martin:she had grief. And I said, it's okay. You can
Terra Martin:cry. And then she burst into tears and came and
Terra Martin:did a session. Right. But I could hear. It was my
Terra Martin:ear that told me what it was.
Meredith Oke:So your. Your ear that's been trained musically,
Meredith Oke:picks up emotions as though they're music under
Meredith Oke:inside of the cadence of someone's speaking voice.
Terra Martin:Exactly, exactly. And over the years, yes, it
Terra Martin:became more honed because more clients, more
Terra Martin:time. Of course, you get really good at it. And
Terra Martin:even when I'm out socializing, I can. Without
Terra Martin:wanting to. You pick it up. You don't. It's not.
Terra Martin:I'm trying to work or anything, but it just
Terra Martin:became so overused that it's automatic.
Meredith Oke:Right. That's so interesting. I mean, what an
Meredith Oke:incredible tool to have in your toolbox. As
Meredith Oke:someone who sees clients or patients, how do you
Meredith Oke:refer to them? Clients or patients?
Terra Martin:I call them clients.
Meredith Oke:Clients. Okay. Who sees clients? And it's part of
Meredith Oke:your job to understand where they are
Meredith Oke:emotionally. You can just hear it.
Terra Martin:I can hear it. And it's. It saves some money
Terra Martin:because the quicker I pick it up, the quicker
Terra Martin:they can go through a. Reckon, you know,
Terra Martin:recognize it. And, you know, truthfully,
Terra Martin:therapists don't change people. People change
Terra Martin:themselves. That's the truth. You know, I'm. I'm
Terra Martin:a. I'm a mirror. I'm a facilitator. I'm not the
Terra Martin:changer. They are.
Meredith Oke:Yes, I completely agree with that. One of my
Meredith Oke:coaching members used to say, you know, you can
Meredith Oke:coach anybody on anything as long as they're
Meredith Oke:coachable.
Terra Martin:That's right.
Meredith Oke:Like, if they're not coachable, don't sign the
Meredith Oke:contract.
Terra Martin:That's right.
Meredith Oke:So I love. I love this idea of. Of hearing the
Meredith Oke:emotions as music are there certain. Because I
Meredith Oke:know that, you know, a lot of us, sometimes you
Meredith Oke:can tell when somebody is using words to say one
Meredith Oke:thing, but the body language or the energy, or
Meredith Oke:you can just tell, you feel that cognitive
Meredith Oke:dissonance, that it's not. It's not lined up with
Meredith Oke:how they're really feeling. So they'll say like,
Meredith Oke:oh, I'm fine, or, oh, no, that's no problem, or.
Meredith Oke:Or even just telling a story as though it's no
Meredith Oke:big deal. But you can feel like a gap between
Meredith Oke:what's being said. And so you pick that up. Well,
Meredith Oke:in many different ways.
Terra Martin:It takes about a paragraph because people have
Terra Martin:learned to hone their intonation like, you know,
Terra Martin:how are you? Nice weather. We all have a nice
Terra Martin:package of sound bite for that. But going on with
Terra Martin:a paragraph or two, we go back, we default to our
Terra Martin:natural intonation. And as soon as that happens,
Terra Martin:then there's a whole wealth of information. If
Terra Martin:you're listening to people not only for context,
Terra Martin:but the rise and fall of their voice, there's a
Terra Martin:whole wealth of information of, you know, if
Terra Martin:someone says, I really like my mother, well,
Terra Martin:guess what, there's two messages there. Verbally
Terra Martin:yes. Sentence wise, they like their mother. But
Terra Martin:intonation, there's something, Something there.
Terra Martin:There's some information there that can be
Terra Martin:unpacked.
Meredith Oke:So have you noticed that there are different
Meredith Oke:intonations for different types of emotions?
Terra Martin:Yes, a lot. There's a generalization, there's a.
Terra Martin:There's a global intonation for anger, fear,
Terra Martin:guilt, doubt. But then there's mixes, because
Terra Martin:nobody's pure anger, nobody's pure doubt,
Terra Martin:nobody's pure love. So when it gets mixes, that's
Terra Martin:where it gets really interesting because it's
Terra Martin:like a different piece of music. It's
Terra Martin:combinations of sound and. And feel. It's a sound
Terra Martin:feel.
Meredith Oke:Right, so like the. A feel in your body as you're
Meredith Oke:hearing them speak.
Terra Martin:Yes, but it's also a feel of if they're saying
Terra Martin:something that's all of a sudden they speak very
Terra Martin:slowly out of the blue, or they speak very fast.
Terra Martin:The intonation is squeezed. So it's like they're
Terra Martin:playing at one end of the piano versus the other
Terra Martin:end of the piano. They're trying to slow down
Terra Martin:something which is an emotion of some sort of. Or
Terra Martin:they're trying to speed it up to get past it.
Terra Martin:Because there's memories happening while they're
Terra Martin:speaking.
Meredith Oke:Oh, that's so interesting. And it's funny as
Meredith Oke:you're describing it, I'm like, oh, it sounds
Meredith Oke:like a music teacher or a voice teacher when
Meredith Oke:you're having the singer find the emotion in the
Meredith Oke:song. But that's just what we're naturally doing
Meredith Oke:as we speak all the time.
Terra Martin:Yes, we do. Yeah, it's a natural thing we do. But
Terra Martin:we never kind of scientifically observe it. We
Terra Martin:never observe it and say, wow, I'm doing this. I
Terra Martin:mean, even with myself, I know there's certain
Terra Martin:people that my intonation changes right away and
Terra Martin:I go, oh, pay attention. Like you're telling
Terra Martin:yourself something. Or there's other people that
Terra Martin:I don't really mind however it comes out or
Terra Martin:however I, however I say it. Like you're one of
Terra Martin:those people. As soon as I met you, I go, I like
Terra Martin:her. I'm going to just say whatever, whatever
Terra Martin:comes to mind.
Meredith Oke:Oh, great, I will. I'm happy to hear that.
Meredith Oke:Because I have to say it's a little, you know,
Meredith Oke:like when I talk to people and they're like,
Meredith Oke:yeah, I can read biofields. I can see this, I can
Meredith Oke:see that. I'm always like, I wonder what. I'm not
Meredith Oke:gonna. Not going to have myself revealed on a
Meredith Oke:podcast. But I always do wonder what they're
Meredith Oke:seeing. Well, I love that. That's one of my
Meredith Oke:favorite. I'm glad you feel that you can say
Meredith Oke:anything, because you probably can. I've heard a
Meredith Oke:lot of things over the years. Sometimes people
Meredith Oke:will say, like, they're so ashamed or nervous or
Meredith Oke:scared to say something, and they'll just tell it
Meredith Oke:to me. And I'm like, oh, wow, you were nervous to
Meredith Oke:tell me that you. Sweetie, I've heard it all.
Meredith Oke:I've heard it all. And then I'm always surprised
Meredith Oke:at how we hold ourselves back from showing up
Meredith Oke:authentically because, you know, I mean, there
Meredith Oke:are safe people and not safe people, but, yes,
Meredith Oke:true. Gosh, we're off. We're so nervous to just
Meredith Oke:say the truth sometimes, aren't we?
Terra Martin:We are. We are, unfortunately. And that's where
Terra Martin:people mask their intonation. They kind of
Terra Martin:squeeze it. Like, I had one client, she's very,
Terra Martin:very British, and her mother used to say to her
Terra Martin:all the time, don't raise your voice. Don't raise
Terra Martin:your voice. Don't raise your voice. Well, then
Terra Martin:she learned to shut down her intonation and,
Terra Martin:like, squeeze it so she would always sound
Terra Martin:practical, logical. And she took out all the
Terra Martin:adjectives out of her sentences, basically. So
Terra Martin:there was no. It was almost like there was no
Terra Martin:emotional content in her intonation. And when she
Terra Martin:came to see me, she goes, you know, I find people
Terra Martin:don't, you know, find me empathetic or
Terra Martin:communicative, you know. And I said, okay. Well,
Terra Martin:I said, I want you to pretend you're angry and
Terra Martin:say something. And it came out in best British,
Terra Martin:and it sounded like she was reading a newspaper.
Terra Martin:And I go, we're going to work on that. But it was
Terra Martin:the training of her mother saying, don't raise
Terra Martin:your voice. So what she did internally was not
Terra Martin:raise her intonation and not let it flow with her
Terra Martin:content or sentences. So it's like she didn't
Terra Martin:have any of her emotions showing through, shining
Terra Martin:and showing through in her words to making them,
Terra Martin:you know, human.
Meredith Oke:Wow, that's so true. And you do. There are those
Meredith Oke:people where it's like almost a monotone, right?
Terra Martin:And that's their guarding what they feel. So it
Terra Martin:doesn't shine and shine through their words. But
Terra Martin:then you don't know. You don't touch the person.
Terra Martin:You don't touch who they are, their genuine self,
Terra Martin:because somebody or something at an event has
Terra Martin:occurred that they felt they have to kind of sit
Terra Martin:on their intonation.
Meredith Oke:Because then there are people where it's like
Meredith Oke:they sound almost hysterical at the drop of a hat.
Terra Martin:That's the people the other end, because they
Terra Martin:don't want to believe that they're so logical,
Terra Martin:practical, and sometimes not compassionate. So
Terra Martin:they exaggerate it the other way. Like all
Terra Martin:extremes, you know, absolutes. There's nothing,
Terra Martin:you know, any absolute. There's something missing
Terra Martin:in the piece. There's something missing in the
Terra Martin:puzzle piece, right?
Meredith Oke:Yeah. There are no absolutes.
Terra Martin:No. Especially in quantum.
Meredith Oke:Yes. Okay. So, I mean, this is so interesting. We
Meredith Oke:could talk the whole time about the voices. So
Meredith Oke:tell me a little bit more about how you work. So
Meredith Oke:your first clue with a client is auditory and
Meredith Oke:then what unfolds?
Terra Martin:Well, I used to have them write 25 questions, but
Terra Martin:I don't know. You must know this. People hate
Terra Martin:writing down questions. It takes them forever. So
Terra Martin:then I put it down to 10, and then I said, okay,
Terra Martin:come to my office. Write five questions on
Terra Martin:anything. But what I'm doing in the questioning
Terra Martin:is saying, are you ready to put yourself in a
Terra Martin:student position? That's all it's about. I don't
Terra Martin:care what the question is. And then I need to
Terra Martin:know if they are a how mind, a when mind, a where
Terra Martin:mind, or what, like, which. Which is the best way
Terra Martin:I can teach them. If they're a how mind, I have
Terra Martin:to give them the method. If they're when, I have
Terra Martin:to tell them timing. And if they're where, I have
Terra Martin:to give them locations. So I get the quickest. I
Terra Martin:want to get the quickest way in to. So that
Terra Martin:they're not in pain anymore. So I use how, when,
Terra Martin:and where as the. As the template.
Meredith Oke:That is so interesting. I love that because
Meredith Oke:something that comes up a lot in my coaching is
Meredith Oke:how much information to give a client, how much
Meredith Oke:to explain to them. And a lot of people who are
Meredith Oke:drawn to study applied quantum biology love the
Meredith Oke:information, and they love sharing the
Meredith Oke:information. And their clients don't always love
Meredith Oke:to receive it, but some of them do. Like I need
Meredith Oke:to know, I need a certain amount of how in order
Meredith Oke:to be motivated to do it correct. But I haven't.
Meredith Oke:I've not heard this distinction before. So that's
Meredith Oke:super interesting. So there's a how, a when, and
Meredith Oke:a where. Could you give examples? I mean, I guess
Meredith Oke:the how's pretty obvious. You explain how it
Meredith Oke:works.
Terra Martin:Yes. When is more people who. They want to deal
Terra Martin:with their future. They want to clear future
Terra Martin:hypothetical problems that haven't happened yet,
Terra Martin:but might happen according to their logic. So
Terra Martin:then I give them this is now. If you. If you keep
Terra Martin:repeating the same behavior going forward, it's
Terra Martin:going to look like this. So that would be when.
Terra Martin:If you stop the behavior, the future can look
Terra Martin:like this. And I kind of open it as
Terra Martin:possibilities, different possibilities for that
Terra Martin:type of person. And they're very much on time.
Terra Martin:You know, they want to save time. So I'll use
Terra Martin:that motivation for them to go. To go there and
Terra Martin:do it. But you see, the reason I just divided
Terra Martin:everybody's mind into the four is I kept finding
Terra Martin:there was a pattern. People came that wanted,
Terra Martin:method only. People came that wanted, well, where
Terra Martin:will I be? Location only. If I change, what do I
Terra Martin:get? That's how I divided it into the four
Terra Martin:categories. Now it's general and some people are
Terra Martin:crossovers, but it's a good start and it saves
Terra Martin:quite a bit of time for them, right?
Meredith Oke:Yeah, absolutely. If you can take the most direct
Meredith Oke:route, what will be most motivating or
Meredith Oke:persuasive? So tell me a little bit more about
Meredith Oke:the.
Terra Martin:About the where in the where. It's events that
Terra Martin:have happened to people. The locations become the
Terra Martin:problem. So when someone has to know where's the
Terra Martin:exit and where is the bathroom and where is the
Terra Martin:front door, where's the. I know that there's kind
Terra Martin:of triggers around there. So I'll go in a
Terra Martin:different way. I won't go right for the exit or
Terra Martin:the doors. I'll go for the middle of the room or
Terra Martin:something and say, what. Tell me about the middle
Terra Martin:of the room, what was there? And then I'll work
Terra Martin:my way out. So that gives me kind of a clue and a
Terra Martin:direction to work with them. If they've had, you
Terra Martin:know, different traumas or different. Just events
Terra Martin:that have happened that have caused them stress.
Meredith Oke:Okay.
Terra Martin:So the where gives me that. So it's just
Terra Martin:isolating very quickly. Isolating. Kind of
Terra Martin:instead of the big wide picture, I'm narrowing
Terra Martin:it, narrowing it, narrowing. And I work in that
Terra Martin:area over an hour or two. I'm trying to get the
Terra Martin:most for their hour or two.
Meredith Oke:Right, right. So they. They fill out the
Meredith Oke:questionnaire and then they come to you. So. And
Meredith Oke:you go from there using that sort of as a bit of
Meredith Oke:a blueprint or guiding post.
Terra Martin:And if they do. Yeah, if they do 25 questions,
Terra Martin:then I count the hows, I count the where's, I
Terra Martin:count the whens that are in it. And if there
Terra Martin:isn't any, we have a very. We have the type of
Terra Martin:person who's very general. So I know it could be
Terra Martin:a long haul unless I get them into using how,
Terra Martin:when, and where. So I'll give them that lesson
Terra Martin:for, for one week and then start. Right.
Meredith Oke:Okay. Yeah. That's so cool because I'm listening.
Meredith Oke:I'm like, I'm a how and a where and a when. But
Meredith Oke:the where, I'm like, I don't even know what
Meredith Oke:you're talking about. It doesn't make no sense to
Meredith Oke:me. What do you mean, the exit?
Terra Martin:I think you're pretty open to the world, so where
Terra Martin:wouldn't matter to you. It's all good.
Meredith Oke:Yes, well, it means a lot to hear you say that
Meredith Oke:because it was not always the case. All right,
Meredith Oke:so. Okay, I just want to go a little big picture
Meredith Oke:for a minute. So you studied hypnosis,
Meredith Oke:psychology, emdr, which is the rapid eye
Meredith Oke:movement. Was it cbt? Cognitive behavioral
Meredith Oke:therapy. And you've been doing this for decades?
Meredith Oke:Over two decades.
Terra Martin:Over two decades, yes.
Meredith Oke:Okay, so tell me, like big picture, what your
Meredith Oke:impression of trauma is. Like, what, what is it
Meredith Oke:and where. I kind of want to go because this has
Meredith Oke:been coming up a lot. I talked about it with
Meredith Oke:Eileen McKusick is we seem to have, as a culture,
Meredith Oke:moved into an understanding of the deep, deep
Meredith Oke:implications of trauma on a person and a person's
Meredith Oke:behavior. But we seem to be a bit stuck there and
Meredith Oke:feel like it's like, oh, your child got
Meredith Oke:traumatized. They're ruined for life, right?
Meredith Oke:Like, that's the, that's the mom fear. And so in
Meredith Oke:my, but my experience personally and in many,
Meredith Oke:many people over, that I've seen over the years
Meredith Oke:in different situations has been that trauma is
Meredith Oke:resolvable. So that's kind of where I want to go.
Meredith Oke:But I want to start with how do you see trauma?
Meredith Oke:Like, how do you explain it to people?
Terra Martin:Basically, it's an event that happens, say when
Terra Martin:someone was younger. Could be five years ago, 10
Terra Martin:years ago. Say it happened when someone was 10.
Terra Martin:The subconscious does not let go and give the
Terra Martin:information to the conscious, doesn't feed it
Terra Martin:forward, because it wants to protect your logical
Terra Martin:mind so that you can go about your day to day
Terra Martin:activity. So it withholds the information and it
Terra Martin:doesn't pass that information forward. So it
Terra Martin:keeps repeating the trauma. So it becomes like
Terra Martin:you're on a train or you're like a mouse running
Terra Martin:around that little treadmill thing. And that
Terra Martin:trauma is continually playing in the back of your
Terra Martin:head, in sight, sound and motion and on the, on
Terra Martin:the neurons and electrons and cells, it keeps
Terra Martin:replaying. But you can perform your daily tasks
Terra Martin:because you haven't been given the information to
Terra Martin:your external. So it doesn't limit you, but
Terra Martin:actually it does limit you. So our subconscious
Terra Martin:mind thinks that it's protecting us, but actually
Terra Martin:makes a bit of a mess.
Meredith Oke:Right. So we have these traumas, these little
Meredith Oke:treadmills, running memories.
Terra Martin:Yeah.
Meredith Oke:Running in the background, so to speak.
Terra Martin:Right.
Meredith Oke:And that is, for lack of a better word, the
Meredith Oke:energy of that is running through our bodies and
Meredith Oke:our fields and our.
Terra Martin:Basically, what it's doing is triggering fight or
Terra Martin:flight response all the time.
Meredith Oke:Okay.
Terra Martin:Even if we're not aware of it. And it's also our
Terra Martin:mirror neurons, what they're doing is they're
Terra Martin:copying it. They're saying, oh, we got to keep
Terra Martin:this. This is important information. We haven't
Terra Martin:processed it. So you keep feeding, like, whatever
Terra Martin:you feed your mirror neurons, the more they copy
Terra Martin:it, they can copy anything.
Meredith Oke:So interesting.
Terra Martin:What you feed them is what you get is basically
Terra Martin:what I'm saying.
Meredith Oke:So the treadmill is feeding the mirror neurons
Meredith Oke:and does that. Then when we talk about creating
Meredith Oke:our reality, are we then subconsciously
Meredith Oke:recreating little versions of that? Because
Meredith Oke:that's what we know. That's what we resonate with.
Terra Martin:Well, then what we do is we take pieces of those.
Terra Martin:Of that detail. It could be a room, it could be a
Terra Martin:day, it could be a season, and that will be
Terra Martin:repeated. And when that season comes up again,
Terra Martin:the trauma will activate stronger because it's
Terra Martin:going. It's happening again. It's now. So the
Terra Martin:past becomes like a virtual reality of now. And
Terra Martin:that replays when the triggers set up in place or
Terra Martin:line up. The mirror neurons say, oh, it's again.
Terra Martin:We're doing this again. This is happening again.
Terra Martin:So the same fight or flight response kicks in.
Meredith Oke:Wow. So how does. How do we know? I mean, I guess
Meredith Oke:we know. Even if we can't pinpoint a trauma, if
Meredith Oke:life is unfolding in. In an uncomfortable,
Meredith Oke:painful way on an ongoing basis, is there likely
Meredith Oke:some. Some background?
Terra Martin:There is.
Meredith Oke:If we keep making choices and we're like, why is
Meredith Oke:this why Again.
Terra Martin:That goes back to how well people want to get to
Terra Martin:know themselves. Like, be educated on themselves.
Terra Martin:Not. Not something wrong, not something right.
Terra Martin:But they want to get educated and go, why am I
Terra Martin:afraid when I go out the front door and I have to
Terra Martin:touch it five times? Why don't I want to get to
Terra Martin:the bottom of it? And I'm the expert of me.
Terra Martin:Therefore, if I start to ask myself how, when,
Terra Martin:where, questions, then I will perhaps remember or
Terra Martin:find out. But people have gotten used to the
Terra Martin:workaround. Like, when you put it away, it's
Terra Martin:still in the closet, but you don't have to think
Terra Martin:about it. So not thinking about it is an
Terra Martin:instruction to the self. When someone says, I
Terra Martin:want to know, I want to know, and you tell
Terra Martin:yourself that you want to know. Interesting
Terra Martin:things pop up out of the body parts and up to
Terra Martin:your conscious.
Meredith Oke:Interesting because I had an experience once. I
Meredith Oke:was doing some kind of, you know, trauma healing
Meredith Oke:modality. And, you know, the person asked me to
Meredith Oke:think of a memory. And it was. It wasn't
Meredith Oke:something. I can't remember what it was at the
Meredith Oke:moment, but it wasn't like a horrible thing. It
Meredith Oke:was just something that happened. And I didn't
Meredith Oke:understand until we did the process that I had
Meredith Oke:attached this certain meaning to that event.
Meredith Oke:Gosh, I wish I could remember what it was. I
Meredith Oke:don't. But I was a child, and it was like one of
Meredith Oke:my parents said something to me or something
Meredith Oke:happened or I have witnessed something, and I
Meredith Oke:made an internal decision. And it wasn't an event
Meredith Oke:that I would have described that could be
Meredith Oke:described as traumatic, But I had attached, like,
Meredith Oke:a deep meaning to it. And I was living by that as
Meredith Oke:if it was a law.
Terra Martin:Right, right. And that's the interesting thing.
Terra Martin:It's not about the size of it, the size of the
Terra Martin:trauma. It's the individual, unique person,
Terra Martin:whatever is affecting them. Whenever I deal with
Terra Martin:a trauma, I don't go, what's the big thing? I go,
Terra Martin:what's the thing? Right. It's because to you,
Terra Martin:something is very important. To someone else,
Terra Martin:it's not, you know, to some people, they like
Terra Martin:peanut butter. Some people don't. So everyone is
Terra Martin:unique. But the fear is universal and the fight
Terra Martin:flight is universal. But what the event is
Terra Martin:actually not the important part. What the
Terra Martin:important part is bringing that to your conscious
Terra Martin:and then processing it. Because your logical mind
Terra Martin:processes, your subconscious just holds on to
Terra Martin:things and says, well, we'll get to it another
Terra Martin:day. So one has the ability to hold on to things,
Terra Martin:but one has the ability to process. And when they
Terra Martin:mix up their jobs, then things get kind of
Terra Martin:cluttered.
Meredith Oke:Right. So that's why it would be important to
Meredith Oke:have some kind of regular practice of cleaning
Meredith Oke:this up.
Terra Martin:Yes.
Meredith Oke:So we. Our circuit, you know, our quantum
Meredith Oke:circuits don't get overloaded.
Terra Martin:Absolutely.
Meredith Oke:Okay.
Terra Martin:Because you guys are dealing with the extra field
Terra Martin:like you're dealing five senses. Plus what's
Terra Martin:happening in the quantum, that's an extra. Like
Terra Martin:an extra sense or something, you know, I don't
Terra Martin:know what you'd call it. Extra awareness.
Meredith Oke:Right.
Terra Martin:And as a coach, you have that too. You would be
Terra Martin:very empathetic with your Your clients. And
Terra Martin:there's a lot being transferred to you that might
Terra Martin:be their issues that you take home without
Terra Martin:realizing it. Right. Unless you scrub it off.
Meredith Oke:Yeah. What are some strategies that you teach
Meredith Oke:people for, like, maintenance, trauma
Meredith Oke:maintenance, or everyday stuff to, like, do this
Meredith Oke:kind of clearing that we're talking about?
Terra Martin:Whoops, I lost you. Sorry.
Meredith Oke:Okay.
Terra Martin:Whoops. How do I come back? Oh, gotcha there. I'm
Terra Martin:back. Sorry, sorry, sorry.
Meredith Oke:No problem.
Terra Martin:Yes. Actually, what I have them do before bed is
Terra Martin:put their hands on their heart and say heart
Terra Martin:throughout the night, let me know what I need to
Terra Martin:know about the past. And then over the next few
Terra Martin:days, as you're doing that, you'll go, mmm, I
Terra Martin:remember this. Oh, I remember that. Now. You're
Terra Martin:not looking for big events, whatever the heart
Terra Martin:brings to you, because the heart will talk to the
Terra Martin:head. Then it's events that just need to be
Terra Martin:processed by thinking about them. It's not that
Terra Martin:you have to do much, but you have to think about
Terra Martin:them. Say, oh, I didn't think that was a big
Terra Martin:thing, but maybe it was. Right. And it's self
Terra Martin:discovery. Like all my clients, I have to teach
Terra Martin:them that they're educating themselves on
Terra Martin:themselves. There's nothing wrong. Like, because
Terra Martin:they have a trauma, that doesn't mean there's
Terra Martin:something wrong. It means they don't know
Terra Martin:themselves well enough to figure out how to get
Terra Martin:into the trauma, get out of the trauma, and
Terra Martin:process the trauma. But that doesn't. That
Terra Martin:doesn't make something wrong.
Meredith Oke:Right? Yeah. Like if you went on a walk through a
Meredith Oke:big muddy forest and you came back all muddy.
Meredith Oke:It's not wrong. You're just covered in mud.
Terra Martin:You're just covered in mud.
Meredith Oke:Went for a walk.
Terra Martin:It'll wash off.
Meredith Oke:Yes.
Terra Martin:Yeah, exactly.
Meredith Oke:So tell me about, in your experience, the
Meredith Oke:resolution of trauma, whether it's the big stuff
Meredith Oke:or the small stuff, and how you see that works.
Terra Martin:Basically, the resolution is if you visualize
Terra Martin:your subconscious as a box of stuff and you dump
Terra Martin:it in front of your senses. And then you start
Terra Martin:looking at it, and your senses go, well, that's.
Terra Martin:I was 10. What did I know? I was. Oh, and that
Terra Martin:was grandfather. Oh, and that was, you know, the
Terra Martin:picture on the wall fell off and broke. And, you
Terra Martin:know, you put the details of the crime, so to
Terra Martin:speak, in front of your senses. Then you can
Terra Martin:update that you were 10 and now you're 20 or 30
Terra Martin:or 50, whatever the age, and it changes the time
Terra Martin:zone. So you don't go back on that past train.
Terra Martin:You're not back on the treadmill, because you're
Terra Martin:taking yourself from 10 to 20 to 30 by updating
Terra Martin:the details, the physical details, the facts, the
Terra Martin:room, the year, the summertime, winter, the
Terra Martin:season. So it allows the information to become.
Terra Martin:It allows the information to come forward and you
Terra Martin:process it with your now logic of 30 as opposed
Terra Martin:to your logic of 10. So we have different
Terra Martin:traumas, small, medium, large, that keep us
Terra Martin:locked in different age groups. Sometimes we're
Terra Martin:locked in at 10, 15, 20, and these kind of locks
Terra Martin:keep us going back to visit it. So we leave our
Terra Martin:now and go back to the past and visit it when
Terra Martin:there's triggers.
Meredith Oke:Right? Okay, that's so interesting because I'm
Meredith Oke:remembering a time I was a member of a committee.
Meredith Oke:We were at a meeting. There were, I don't know,
Meredith Oke:maybe eight or ten of us around a table. It was
Meredith Oke:through an organization where we'd all been
Meredith Oke:through some stuff. Everyone probably had a
Meredith Oke:certain level of trauma in their background. But
Meredith Oke:we were all just having a meeting, being grown
Meredith Oke:ups, talking about boring things like budgets or
Meredith Oke:whatever. And someone came in late and he was
Meredith Oke:really angry about a decision that had been made
Meredith Oke:at the previous meeting that he wasn't involved
Meredith Oke:in. And he came and started. He came into the
Meredith Oke:room and started shouting. And I watched all the
Meredith Oke:faces of these adults freeze and they became
Meredith Oke:children right in front of my eyes. And I was
Meredith Oke:like, oh my gosh, it's not grownups anymore.
Meredith Oke:Every single one of them. It was like a little. A
Meredith Oke:frightened little child. And I just had this
Meredith Oke:moment where I was like, oh my goodness. Right?
Meredith Oke:Because it was so many people all at the same
Meredith Oke:time, all experience like an angry authority, you
Meredith Oke:know, it was a big man and he was standing up and
Meredith Oke:we were all sitting down. It was just like that,
Meredith Oke:the entire room. I was like, oh, wow, that's how
Meredith Oke:it happens.
Terra Martin:That's exactly, you're right. Exactly, exactly.
Terra Martin:Yeah. And if you're watching, if you're outside
Terra Martin:of it, you must be clearer from yelling than
Terra Martin:somebody else. Then you can stay in your senses
Terra Martin:and you'll observe what's going on instead of be
Terra Martin:part of it.
Meredith Oke:Right.
Terra Martin:That's kind of like being in your senses means
Terra Martin:you have the ability to observe rather than react.
Meredith Oke:So if we do find ourselves right, something does
Meredith Oke:trigger someone speaks to us angrily. Like I get
Meredith Oke:triggered when people honk at me while I'm
Meredith Oke:driving. Like it's just for like a full minute
Meredith Oke:after. I'm just like out of sorts completely. So
Meredith Oke:what, how do we, how do we manage that?
Terra Martin:The first thing I do Is I start counting
Terra Martin:backwards from 10. I go 10, 9. And I slow my
Terra Martin:breathing down because I want to make sure that
Terra Martin:my emotional energy is moving slower than theirs.
Terra Martin:And if mine's moving slower than theirs, theirs
Terra Martin:goes over my head. Like I don't absorb it into
Terra Martin:me. So I go 10, breathe, nine. Breathe, eight.
Terra Martin:And so I make sure that they actually 747 over
Terra Martin:me, energy wise. Because anger is moving at such
Terra Martin:a high pitch on the piano that if I'm playing a
Terra Martin:lower, slower piece, it's not going to connect.
Meredith Oke:Right, that makes sense.
Terra Martin:Right, but you have to go, go slow now. But your
Terra Martin:first instinct when someone yells is to go fast.
Terra Martin:Yeah, but training yourself to go slow because
Terra Martin:when you're dealing with emotions and emotional
Terra Martin:energy, it's a whole different ball game. It's
Terra Martin:like quantum.
Meredith Oke:It's.
Terra Martin:Everything's backwards. It's like Alice through
Terra Martin:the Looking Glass.
Meredith Oke:Right, Right. Okay. So also, one interesting
Meredith Oke:caveat, or not caveat, but bookend to that story,
Meredith Oke:is that the person who came in and yelled, he
Meredith Oke:came back at the next meeting and he was like.
Meredith Oke:And he was like, I'm sorry. Apparently I came off
Meredith Oke:really angry. Like he had no idea he was yelling.
Terra Martin:So that tells me two things. He's not an ear
Terra Martin:person. And he doesn't listen to his own
Terra Martin:intonation, so he can yell because he doesn't
Terra Martin:hear it.
Meredith Oke:Right.
Terra Martin:You know, he doesn't hear his own anger, so he
Terra Martin:can yell.
Meredith Oke:He has no idea the effect that he's having.
Terra Martin:No, no. He might hear other emotions that he says
Terra Martin:and the intonation, but that's the one that he's
Terra Martin:tone deaf on.
Meredith Oke:Interesting. That explains so much too. When you
Meredith Oke:have like disconnect between people and someone's
Meredith Oke:feeling super, like, victimized and the other
Meredith Oke:person's like, I don't understand what your
Meredith Oke:problem is. I'm not.
Terra Martin:Well, it was interesting. I had a couple and the
Terra Martin:wife said, he never listens to me. And the
Terra Martin:husband said, she never talks to me, she never
Terra Martin:looks at me. But the truth was he never looked at
Terra Martin:her because he was an ear person. He was really
Terra Martin:ear. So she never talked to him because she
Terra Martin:wanted to be looked at. And then she would have
Terra Martin:talked to him. So it was just the fights were
Terra Martin:about who's the ear and who's the eye in the
Terra Martin:relationship. And it was funny because that's
Terra Martin:external communication that was creating kind of
Terra Martin:a bit of war.
Meredith Oke:Yes. Oh, that's so funny. My husband and I
Meredith Oke:actually have that all the time. He'll be like,
Meredith Oke:on his phone And I'll be telling him something.
Meredith Oke:And if it's just something, you know, like
Meredith Oke:logistical, I don't really notice. But if I want
Meredith Oke:to tell him something.
Terra Martin:Yes.
Meredith Oke:And he's looking at his phone like, I'll just
Meredith Oke:stop talking. And he's finally. He'll look up and
Meredith Oke:be like, what? I'm listening. Like, I need you to
Meredith Oke:look at me. I need you to look at my face while I
Meredith Oke:say this or it doesn't count. He's like, but I
Meredith Oke:can still hear you.
Terra Martin:It's funny because we're all trained as kids to
Terra Martin:use one sense more than another. And so say
Terra Martin:musicians use their ears, of course. And yes,
Terra Martin:they use their eyes, but it's not going to be
Terra Martin:their goat.
Meredith Oke:That makes sense because he was a musician too,
Meredith Oke:in school. Okay.
Terra Martin:You'd be trained. That's your go to that you
Terra Martin:would trust. Or it's your familiar sense. And as,
Terra Martin:as it's familiar, it's your default too. So we
Terra Martin:had some training that we had to learn to use our
Terra Martin:unfamiliar sense with people or with clients. We
Terra Martin:had to. I would blindfold them if they were
Terra Martin:visual. And, and I say, okay, now talk. And they
Terra Martin:had a hard time talking because it wasn't
Terra Martin:familiar to hear their intonation. Or if they
Terra Martin:were not so visual, I had them cover their ears
Terra Martin:and they had to look around the room. So it was
Terra Martin:just to show that everybody has a preferred sense
Terra Martin:that they're familiar with or they feel safe with.
Meredith Oke:So cool. Okay. And then so I, I want to talk
Meredith Oke:about how the hypnosis plays into this. And then
Meredith Oke:how the hypnosis brought you into like the
Meredith Oke:applied quantum biology.
Terra Martin:It plays into it because when people are
Terra Martin:entranced, their senses become expanded. Everyone
Terra Martin:thinks that you go deep and you act like a
Terra Martin:chicken and do that stuff. None of that happens.
Terra Martin:Your senses become expanded, your skin becomes
Terra Martin:expanded. You can hear a pin drop at the other
Terra Martin:side of the room. And what happens is you open
Terra Martin:the doorway between your subconscious and
Terra Martin:conscious. So the information that's needed can
Terra Martin:get through right to your external. So when
Terra Martin:people are in a light trance, you know, a trance
Terra Martin:like if you're reading a book and you're not
Terra Martin:aware of your environment, that's a light trance.
Terra Martin:So in that state, they can process a lot of
Terra Martin:information from their subconscious, which
Terra Martin:without the pain of it. But if they go really
Terra Martin:deep in trance, they're reliving the pain. And so
Terra Martin:that's not as useful because they've already had
Terra Martin:the pain, they don't need to repeat it, but they
Terra Martin:need to open the doorway for the information to
Terra Martin:pass through. And that's how it's used. But also
Terra Martin:they need to open the doorway to see who they are
Terra Martin:on their external rather than who they think they
Terra Martin:are.
Meredith Oke:So it's like opening the portal between the
Meredith Oke:conscious and the subconscious to free that
Meredith Oke:little piece of ourselves. That's on that
Meredith Oke:treadmill.
Terra Martin:Yeah, that's on the treadmill, exactly. The
Terra Martin:information can flow forward easier.
Meredith Oke:And what's your experience like in terms of
Meredith Oke:people getting over things?
Terra Martin:Like, I've had lots of experiences of people. How
Terra Martin:they get there is very different. There was one
Terra Martin:lady who had been on Valium for years. I think 30
Terra Martin:years she had been on Valium. And she came to the
Terra Martin:office, and it was a new office I just rented.
Terra Martin:And she came in and she goes, I want to clear
Terra Martin:this. I'm fed up with being afraid. I'm fed up. I
Terra Martin:said, okay, close your eyes. Where do you feel it
Terra Martin:in the body? And she went into it. And all of a
Terra Martin:sudden she let out this primeval scream, right?
Terra Martin:And I went, oh, my God, I'm going to lose my
Terra Martin:lease. I'm going to get kicked out of the
Terra Martin:building. She didn't stop for 30 minutes. She did
Terra Martin:this scream for 30 minutes. And I thought, I
Terra Martin:don't want to stop her because I know I don't
Terra Martin:want to cut that energy. I go, oh, I'll find
Terra Martin:another office. Okay. And so then what happened
Terra Martin:is when she came out of it, she goes, oh, I feel
Terra Martin:so much better. The next day she called me. She
Terra Martin:goes, I can't talk. And I go, I'm not surprised.
Terra Martin:She goes, what I didn't tell you was I've been on
Terra Martin:Valium for 30 years, and I've been pressing down
Terra Martin:my emotions, and this felt so good. And now I
Terra Martin:think I'm going to throw away my. My Valium,
Terra Martin:right? And I went, okay. And she goes, do you
Terra Martin:still have your office? And I go, yeah, so far.
Terra Martin:But it was just, you know, that was how she chose
Terra Martin:to deal with it.
Meredith Oke:Yeah, that's. I was going to say, so that, like,
Meredith Oke:there was no prompting on your part. You just
Meredith Oke:opened the portal and she started to scream. That
Meredith Oke:was what her body wanted to do.
Terra Martin:Right. And that's just. It's about the body,
Terra Martin:actually, you're right. That's a good point. It's
Terra Martin:what the body wants to do. Hypnosis allows the
Terra Martin:body to do what it needs to do, but it won't
Terra Martin:always be logical, right? And it'll be like, as a
Terra Martin:therapist, you got to go, hang on, we're going
Terra Martin:for a ride here. And then just let it happen.
Terra Martin:Because it's not my direction that guides it.
Terra Martin:It's her body's direction or their bodies,
Terra Martin:Whoever it is, the body knows the bottom line.
Terra Martin:The body knows.
Meredith Oke:Right, Right.
Terra Martin:Because in any trauma, wherever the body's been
Terra Martin:touched, say if someone's been raped, the skin
Terra Martin:has recorded every single touch that's happened.
Terra Martin:And so it's replaying the information all the
Terra Martin:time on the cellular level. And when you clear it
Terra Martin:out, which is what quantum seems to do, because
Terra Martin:that was another piece that I was missing. You
Terra Martin:know, when they use sunlight, circadian rhythm,
Terra Martin:then everything that I've done comes into a
Terra Martin:greater play. And physically, they get clearer on
Terra Martin:their cells because the sunlight helps so much to.
Meredith Oke:Really. Yeah, I mean, that makes perfect sense to
Meredith Oke:me. But I'm curious about to hear your
Meredith Oke:observations on that.
Terra Martin:Well, my observation is once they are clear of,
Terra Martin:say, a client of mine bombs in Lebanon, when he
Terra Martin:grew up, he was afraid of light. He was afraid of
Terra Martin:the dark. And once we worked on clearing light
Terra Martin:and dark through CBT and hypnosis, then I gave
Terra Martin:him just the simple rules of quantum that I found
Terra Martin:in January when I was, you know, January winter
Terra Martin:cohort. And he followed them. He didn't want to
Terra Martin:know why or how. He just followed what I gave him
Terra Martin:and what you guys gave me. And honestly, he
Terra Martin:became a whole different person. It just brought
Terra Martin:it more physical and more physical. So now he's.
Terra Martin:He's wearing red, you know, the blue blocking
Terra Martin:glasses. He's doing cold therapy. He's got
Terra Martin:grounding sheets. And he is like a different
Terra Martin:person because he's not snappy, he's not jumpy.
Terra Martin:Even though he was clear, there was still
Terra Martin:triggers to take him back. But the quantum
Terra Martin:grounded him in his body. Right. And he stayed
Terra Martin:there. He didn't go back and forth in time.
Meredith Oke:Right. Because the trauma is held in that
Meredith Oke:structured water and optimizing our circadian
Meredith Oke:rhythms and grounding.
Terra Martin:Right, right. So he could realize where he was,
Terra Martin:that he was clear, but he could also ground more
Terra Martin:that he was free. Not only clear, but there's,
Terra Martin:you know, when you're clear, it's one thing, but
Terra Martin:you always think, am I going to go back there? Am
Terra Martin:I going to feel that again? And this grounding
Terra Martin:process and the sunlight and circadian rhythm
Terra Martin:really changed that for him. It made him trust
Terra Martin:his body and say, you got this. You're not going
Terra Martin:to go back there. And so he became just mellow,
Terra Martin:like in incredibly mellow. And it was within. I
Terra Martin:was taking the course at the time, so this was
Terra Martin:just new stuff for me. In January and over the
Terra Martin:four, four or five weeks, he did this turnaround.
Terra Martin:And I said, I am so in on this quantum stuff.
Meredith Oke:Oh, that's great, because. Yeah. I mean, as
Meredith Oke:you've been saying, like, it's all quantum. The
Meredith Oke:hypnosis, the emdr, the. The emotions, like, all
Meredith Oke:of it. But it's these connecting that to our
Meredith Oke:physical environment and the kind of light that
Meredith Oke:we are exposed to and the quality of darkness
Meredith Oke:that we get. Has, in your experience, shifted
Meredith Oke:your clients.
Terra Martin:Well, it shifted them from. You know, you can
Terra Martin:clear three quarters of the way of a trauma, but
Terra Martin:it still has to come to the senses and has to
Terra Martin:come to the body. And when they do reset their
Terra Martin:circadian rhythm, that aligns everything for the
Terra Martin:change to kick in in a very physical way. Right.
Terra Martin:It's not just under the surface anymore. It
Terra Martin:becomes part of their external. So their neural
Terra Martin:pathways are no longer saying, I need to go to
Terra Martin:the past to protect myself. They go, I need to go
Terra Martin:to the sun to protect myself. I need to wear blue
Terra Martin:blocking glasses to protect myself. I need to
Terra Martin:reevaluate people that cause me stress. It
Terra Martin:grounds them here and then they stay there. And
Terra Martin:once they're in there now, then the past gets
Terra Martin:weaker. Weaker. Weaker as a message and as. As a
Terra Martin:text message or as an email. It gets dissipated
Terra Martin:the longer they stay in the moment. Right, right.
Meredith Oke:That's really profound and makes sense because
Meredith Oke:one of, like, my personal experience, you know,
Meredith Oke:regulating my circadian rhythm, like, yes, I felt
Meredith Oke:better. I had more energy. My sleep completely
Meredith Oke:changed. But I also, yes, as you said, developed
Meredith Oke:an awareness of myself and time and space.
Terra Martin:Right.
Meredith Oke:That I did not have before, and an awareness of
Meredith Oke:my, you know, connection to the earth and the
Meredith Oke:cosmos and the directions. You know, like, I now
Meredith Oke:am always aware where the east and the west is
Meredith Oke:because I pay attention to the sun and there.
Meredith Oke:Yeah, there has definitely been deep emotional
Meredith Oke:and spiritual shifts Right. From that practice,
Meredith Oke:which really just started out as, like, my sleep
Meredith Oke:is so crap and I'm. And I have chronic fatigue.
Terra Martin:Right, right. It's just magic. When we go back
Terra Martin:to, you know, it takes them back to their
Terra Martin:authentic body, and then the body voice becomes
Terra Martin:stronger than the voice of their trauma.
Meredith Oke:The body voice becomes stronger than the voice of
Meredith Oke:the trauma. That's good. So it's not like the
Meredith Oke:trauma disappears, but it's. It's like, oh, that.
Terra Martin:Yeah, it's just a memory that you go. That old
Terra Martin:thing.
Meredith Oke:Right.
Terra Martin:Yeah, it Becomes a memory. But not now. It's not
Terra Martin:attached to the now. And you're so involved with
Terra Martin:your body by doing the protocols, that these
Terra Martin:protocols take precedence. You know, like sun in
Terra Martin:the morning takes precedence. Cold therapy takes
Terra Martin:precedence. Grounding takes precedence. Respect
Terra Martin:for the body takes precedence. It's the focus.
Terra Martin:Not the past becomes the focus. The now, you
Terra Martin:know, the miracle that the body is takes
Terra Martin:precedence.
Meredith Oke:Wow, that's so beautiful. This is a way of
Meredith Oke:looking at it that I hadn't fully considered. Is
Meredith Oke:there anything else you want to say on that? The
Meredith Oke:sunlight and the darkness.
Terra Martin:I did it with several people. And sometimes cold
Terra Martin:therapy works for depression better than, you
Terra Martin:know, there were certain applications, and I
Terra Martin:don't know enough yet because I haven't done
Terra Martin:enough clients with this modality. But I find for
Terra Martin:people that are afraid of light, it's a little
Terra Martin:bit longer process. You got to clear them of
Terra Martin:light and then desensitize them to morning light.
Terra Martin:So if someone's not afraid of light, I can almost
Terra Martin:go, do this, do this, do this, do this. And the
Terra Martin:protocol you guys have given, and they will do it
Terra Martin:now, a lot of them don't want to know what it
Terra Martin:means, how it means, and they just want to do it.
Terra Martin:And I go, fair enough, just do it. Right? And
Terra Martin:then they report back to me the changes that have
Terra Martin:occurred and how they lose their fatigue and how
Terra Martin:they lose. Somebody lost hives. They had hives
Terra Martin:and they lost the hives. Some had immune disorder
Terra Martin:and it disappeared. It kind of, you know, changed
Terra Martin:the more light they got. And you can't explain
Terra Martin:it. It's just, I think it's nature. It's body.
Terra Martin:It's body talking to nature, body talking to
Terra Martin:circadian rhythm. I think there's a whole world
Terra Martin:there, which you call quantum, that heals the
Terra Martin:body and brings it back to its true setting, how
Terra Martin:it's supposed to function. But is it totally
Terra Martin:explainable? No. Does it happen? Yes. Are there
Terra Martin:results? Yes, the results are there. I think the
Terra Martin:science has to catch up with it. But I believe in
Terra Martin:the results. I don't care, you know, if there's
Terra Martin:results, then it counts to me.
Meredith Oke:Yes. Yes. And for each person that benefits, that
Meredith Oke:that's a piece of evidence, whether it's in a
Meredith Oke:double blind study or not. It's that person has a
Meredith Oke:changed life.
Terra Martin:But there hasn't been one client that I've given
Terra Martin:them the information that they haven't benefited
Terra Martin:to a small degree, to medium degree, to a large
Terra Martin:degree. So to me, sold. It's the way to go. And
Terra Martin:plus, it's away from the medical. Which we could
Terra Martin:talk for hours on that one, too.
Meredith Oke:We sure could. So just to wrap up your, you know,
Meredith Oke:approach to working with people, sort of. It's a
Meredith Oke:combination of hypnosis plus other modalities
Meredith Oke:you've now brought in. Circadian regulation,
Meredith Oke:grounding, cold therapy when appropriate. I love
Meredith Oke:this. And I'm just curious, when people come to
Meredith Oke:you, do they come. Like, I often talk to people
Meredith Oke:when they're trying to, you know, write copy for
Meredith Oke:potential clients, and I'm like, you know, it's
Meredith Oke:like, speak to the problem. No, no. That they're
Meredith Oke:experiencing. So do people come in with, like,
Meredith Oke:what are the most common things? Right, Like, I
Meredith Oke:want to stop smoking. I want to stop yelling at
Meredith Oke:my kids like, I'm broke all the time. Or do they
Meredith Oke:come in and say, I want to heal this trauma that
Meredith Oke:happened to me?
Terra Martin:They're never that direct. Generally, they come
Terra Martin:in and say, I have a problem with my mother. So
Terra Martin:then I know it's generally the father. They say,
Terra Martin:I am never afraid of anything, which means
Terra Martin:they're afraid of a lot. But there's certain
Terra Martin:common things that are stress. Like lately, you
Terra Martin:know, in the last five years, it's a lot of
Terra Martin:stress, work stress. Covid has its. You know,
Terra Martin:people are still afraid of COVID and the
Terra Martin:aftermath of not having friends for two years. A
Terra Martin:whole bunch of stuff is created from COVID as far
Terra Martin:as emotional problems. But the average person now
Terra Martin:is more. I used to see a lot of cases, heavy duty
Terra Martin:cases, but I've tapered it down to more
Terra Martin:educational stuff. Now people who want to get
Terra Martin:educated on their stress and want to, you know,
Terra Martin:live a fuller life, a richer life. So if it's.
Terra Martin:It's a different kind of clientele I've had from
Terra Martin:the early days where I was kind of in a. In a
Terra Martin:medical clinic and taking the doctor's leftovers,
Terra Martin:and they say, well, we. We're finished with, you
Terra Martin:know, experimenting on them. They're yours now.
Terra Martin:And I go, oh, gee, thanks. Right.
Meredith Oke:What medical clinic? Like, what was that?
Terra Martin:It was. It was OHIP clinic, you know. Ohip.
Meredith Oke:Mm.
Terra Martin:Yeah.
Meredith Oke:So OHIP for people who aren't from Ontario, Is it
Meredith Oke:the Ontario Health Insurance Clinic Program?
Terra Martin:And we. We. We were hired as. My husband and I at
Terra Martin:the time, were hired as the hypnotherapist in the
Terra Martin:clinic. And, you know, OHIP would bill for us,
Terra Martin:and we would see what they gave us. And it was
Terra Martin:about. We were working about 12 hours a day, and
Terra Martin:we got everything that kind of they didn't want
Terra Martin:or they were done with. And so at the time, this
Terra Martin:was in the. This was in the late, late 80s. Yeah,
Terra Martin:it was the late 80s. And so hypnotherapy at that
Terra Martin:time in Toronto was still kind of like, you know,
Terra Martin:woo, woo.
Meredith Oke:Yeah. I'm shocked OHIP even had you on staff.
Terra Martin:So are we. So, so what we did is we had the front
Terra Martin:office, which was all glass, and we would.
Terra Martin:Whenever we brought a client in, we'd pull the
Terra Martin:curtains. So it was like hypnotherapy in the, in,
Terra Martin:in the closet, so to speak. And then we would
Terra Martin:work with them. And one lady came and she had a
Terra Martin:lump on her neck the size of an orange, and her
Terra Martin:husband had been a pain in the neck for many
Terra Martin:years. So we worked with metaphors and we worked
Terra Martin:with, you know, her breathing and her techniques
Terra Martin:and. And then after four weeks, the lump went
Terra Martin:flat because she was no longer angry. She went
Terra Martin:back to school, she made something of herself,
Terra Martin:and he fell back in love with her and was happy
Terra Martin:ever after. But the doctors wanted to know the
Terra Martin:scientific. How did that happen and what did we
Terra Martin:do? And we couldn't begin to explain it because
Terra Martin:she was doing it, we were facilitating it, and we
Terra Martin:were left there going, you know, we said to her,
Terra Martin:if you tell anybody that you're fixed, we're
Terra Martin:gonna. We know where you live. So it was, it was
Terra Martin:a, A different time in a different place in the
Terra Martin:80s to do that sort of thing and get results and
Terra Martin:still be working in the medical profession. So we
Terra Martin:did it only for about a year because then we went
Terra Martin:into private practice. But it was a tough year
Terra Martin:because we were doing some amazing stuff. But it
Terra Martin:wasn't recognized as amazing. It was recognized
Terra Martin:as more just fluke or last resort.
Meredith Oke:Right, right.
Terra Martin:But it was a fabulous training ground to push us
Terra Martin:right into private practice, which is what we
Terra Martin:did. Right.
Meredith Oke:Perfect. Yeah. You're all set up. I know. I'm
Meredith Oke:trying to imagine that conversation. Well, how
Meredith Oke:did you do that?
Terra Martin:Well, exactly.
Meredith Oke:And you know, the thing that I find interesting
Meredith Oke:is that the science is catching up. I think there
Meredith Oke:probably is enough science to explain these types
Meredith Oke:of things, but they still don't care. It's like,
Meredith Oke:Right. We could show them a mountain of work on
Meredith Oke:Gilbert Ling or May Wen Ho or structured water
Meredith Oke:and frequency and vibration and the energy
Meredith Oke:bodies. And it's still like, they'll be like, oh,
Meredith Oke:well, it wasn't in this type of study, or you
Meredith Oke:didn't do this kind of thing, or there's always a
Meredith Oke:Reason, because their minds are just not going to
Meredith Oke:accept.
Terra Martin:Exactly. When I first found your site, I go, I
Terra Martin:know this. I felt like this. I know what this is.
Meredith Oke:Oh, I love it. Yeah. And so many people,
Meredith Oke:especially, you know, people from, from a more
Meredith Oke:medical or biochemical, you know, even if they're
Meredith Oke:a naturopath field, they're, they're very
Meredith Oke:intrigued by the idea of quantum biology. But
Meredith Oke:people from your world are like, oh, of course,
Meredith Oke:you're just putting words to it. There's just
Meredith Oke:language to explain what's happening.
Terra Martin:Well, it's funny. Hypnotherapy in those days
Terra Martin:wasn't hooga booga, but it wasn't medical. So we
Terra Martin:really didn't have a place to a group. We didn't
Terra Martin:have a peer group really because neither group
Terra Martin:wanted us. The medical didn't want us for sure
Terra Martin:because we were getting results and the hooka
Terra Martin:boogas didn't want us because we weren't hooka
Terra Martin:booga enough. We were more.
Meredith Oke:You're not woo woo enough.
Terra Martin:So we didn't make the grade either way.
Meredith Oke:Well, I think it worked out because you seems to
Meredith Oke:have developed just an incredible approach and
Meredith Oke:techniques combining like a very. So many unique
Meredith Oke:aspects of yourself and your work. And so now is
Meredith Oke:the. The part where I ask you to share how people
Meredith Oke:can find you. But.
Terra Martin:I'm word of mouth. I'm word of mouth.
Meredith Oke:Yes. So I was gonna say, I'm sorry to say there
Meredith Oke:is, there are no socials, there is no website.
Meredith Oke:Tara is OG OG word of mouth. So I don't know what
Meredith Oke:to say. Is there any way you want, anything you
Meredith Oke:want to say for people? If they want to work with
Meredith Oke:you.
Terra Martin:They can contact me and I can do it online. Like
Terra Martin:I can. Do you.
Meredith Oke:Do you work virtually?
Terra Martin:I. I work digitally, yeah. They can do it online.
Terra Martin:They'd have to. I can give them an email.
Meredith Oke:They can say, okay, you know what we'll do? You
Meredith Oke:can. We'll make sure that you're set up with a
Meredith Oke:profile in the QVC free community.
Terra Martin:Yep.
Meredith Oke:So if you go to the QVC free community, which you
Meredith Oke:can join through qbcpod.com just click free
Meredith Oke:community and people listening. If you don't have
Meredith Oke:an account, set one up. It's free and it's a
Meredith Oke:great way to find people like Tara and all the
Meredith Oke:other guests that I've had on the podcast. So if
Meredith Oke:you go in there and you click in and you type in
Meredith Oke:Tara T E R R A, her profile will come up and that
Meredith Oke:will put your private. Your contact information
Meredith Oke:in there.
Terra Martin:Oh, I passed my boards.
Meredith Oke:Oh, congratulations.
Terra Martin:Yeah.
Meredith Oke:Board certified. Applied Quantum Biology
Meredith Oke:practitioner.
Terra Martin:Absolutely. Yeah.
Meredith Oke:This is so exciting. Well, I look forward to
Meredith Oke:doing another interview with you down the road to
Meredith Oke:hear hear how it's all coming together and what
Meredith Oke:new insights you've had. Thank you so much.
Terra Martin:Thank you.
Meredith Oke:This was super fun.
Terra Martin:Been a pleasure. Thank you.